Why Farang Men Like Thai Girls And Hate Farang Women
By Billy Bangkok
June 22, 2008
I have a good mate who is married to a non-Thai woman. Although separated by several continents she has many of the same values as a Thai woman. They were having dinner one night with a farang couple. My mate’s wife offhandedly mentioned that sometimes when her husband gets home from work she’ll pour a basin of water and wash his feet.
The farang woman was aghast. She, in her self-righteous zeal, berated the wife for being subservient. She told her she should more pride in herself and not allow herself to be treated like a slave.
The wife, biting her tongue as best she could, told the farang woman that she doesn’t do it because he expects her to. For her it is a way of showing appreciation. Her husband provides for her very well and they own several beautiful homes. She wants for nothing. She went on to tell the farang that her husband is a loving and caring man who attends to her emotionally as well as financially and that she loves him very much. She asked why it should seem so strange to do something for her husband that he finds relaxing and enjoying.
Like I said, she was biting her tongue as best she could but her feelings were eventually betrayed in her last sentence on the topic. "Perhaps if you Western women showed your husbands some respect and appreciation for being a good husband the divorce rate in your country wouldn’t be over 50%."
This interaction is a perfect illustration of why so many farang men fall in love with Thai women. It also serves to illustrate why so many farang women simply cannot grasp why farang men seem to prefer Thai women. The farang women think they know but they are as wrong as first timer to Thailand who can’t see past the Thai smile.
Farang women, generally, think that farang men are attracted to Thai women is because they are submissive. They think the men are attracted because they can get a girlfriend half their age. They think that the men are attracted to the tight little Asian bodies.
The farang woman is correct but only to a certain degree. Yes, men are attracted to those things but there’s more to it than just that. Farang men also want to feel appreciated and respected. Yet, as the story told above demonstrates your average farang woman would never lower themselves. Farang women cherish their equality too much to do something that seems to them to be so one-sided.
However there’s an inequality in most farang / farang relationships. By that I mean that when you weigh all of the tangible and intangible qualities each party brings to the relationship the man, generally, is bringing more to the table than the woman. For instance, in few farang / farang marriages does the husband earn less than the wife. Likewise, you’re far more likely to find an attractive man married to an average looking woman than to find an attractive woman married to an average looking man. There are no absolutes here but just going by the numbers this is more true than not.
So you have these inequalities in most relationships. I know that’s a hard pill for some people to swallow but one only need to look at the number of men who graduate with degrees in economics, mathematics, computer science, medicine, and the other hard sciences vs. the number of women. Men, just going by the numbers, are more likely to be the higher earner. So right from the starting blocks you have an income discrepancy between the two. In order for the relationship to equalize she needs to bring something of the same value to the relationship.
Unfortunately, Western women cherish the concept of equality too much. Tell a secretary making £30,000 a year that she needs to bring something extra to the table in order to marry a software engineer making £60,000 and, rightly or wrongly, she’ll accuse you of being a chauvinist. So men just tend to accept that as part of life. Tradition says that their job is to be the primary earner so they accept it unquestioningly.
But there’s a catch. Even though, traditionally, that means that the woman should shoulder more of the household chores and generally try to provide a good home life for her husband who has been fulfilling his traditional role, many farang women feel that that role is outdated and beneath them. Whether that is true or not is not for me to answer but in one way or the other the woman has to bring things back to balance or the relationship simply isn’t going to work. Perhaps she’s much more attractive than her husband. That might even things out. Maybe she’s a wildcat in the sack. That might balance things out. Maybe she knows just when and just how to stroke her husband’s ego. Maybe that’s what evens things out. I don’t know what it is as it will be different for different couples but without the balance the relationship is doomed.
I believe this is why you often see so much hostility directed at farang women by farang men who have been fortunate enough to have a relationship with a Thai woman. Even if they don’t fully realize it consciously, it dawns on them that they’ve been getting the short end of the stick in most relationships. And like finding out your girlfriend has been sleeping around on you behind your back the farang man feels humiliated for being taken for such a fool. His rage is often so out of proportion with the actual damage done that he dismisses all farang women as . . . . well, I could list several derogatory terms here but I’ll allow the reader to fill in his/her own.
Personally, I don’t hate farang women. I don’t date them very often nowadays but I don’t hate them. I do prefer to date Thai women. Not for the reasons that most farang women might think but because Thai women tend to try to balance out the relationship. Obviously you cannot talk about an entire sex and not have exceptions. There are Thai women who’s mind set is more like the farang women I’ve described and there are farang women who have an outlook more like the Thai women I describe. That’s why I try to steer clear of making sweeping statements and say things like "tend to" or "normally."
It’s funny because most farang men have brainwashed themselves into believing many of the same things as farang women. I guess it’s natural since we come from the same culture. I remember the first time it really struck me. She was Thai with a good job, had a post-graduate degree, and was certainly not the poor farmer’s daughter stereotype. We were having dinner and when the food arrived she served me and then herself. When my water glass was half empty (or half full depending on how you look at it) she would fill it.
I was a little uncomfortable with that so I indicated she didn’t need to serve me. She insisted gently saying "You relax. I take care of you." As I thought about it, it made sense. If she likes you then demonstrating that she can be a good girlfriend or wife is very important to her. It would be the same as a guy holding a door open or pulling the seat out for his date. This is her way of saying that she likes me and that this is one of the qualities she intends to bring to the relationship.
Perhaps farang women will think she was being subservient but I thought of it as part of the dance we call dating. I show my ability to provide by taking her to a nice place to eat and she reciprocates by demonstrating that she can be a caring girlfriend. If anything, instead of viewing it as an act of weakness, as being subservient would imply, I viewed it as a sign that she was not the type of woman who would only take from the relationship without giving back. Obviously, a respectable quality.
Now if one contrasts that with a normal farang / farang date you start to recognize how the whole relationship imbalance manifests itself. It’s very difficult for a woman to screw up on a date unless she doesn’t show up, passes out drunk, or belches at the table. It’s hard for her to screw up the date because she is not the one auditioning. The man is primarily the one who is auditioning. So on a normal farang / farang date the man is expected to demonstrate all of the qualities that he can bring into the relationship and the woman will either approve (agree to a second date) or disapprove (decline a second date) without ever revealing her hand.
On a farang / Thai date both the man and woman are auditioning equally. This is true equality and I find it refreshingly honest which is why I prefer to date Thai women. When I date a Thai woman I feel as if I actually have some control over the situation. It is as much up to her to impress me as it is for me to impress her. I don’t want to say it makes you feel as if you have more power than you do in a farang / farang relationship but it’s the difference between a job interview where the company has specifically recruited you because of your unique talents and a job interview after you’ve been laid off during a recession. In one you feel like you’re in a position of control. If the company wants you then they need to demonstrate that they can provide you with the working environment and compensation that you feel entitled to. In the other scenario you’re just happy to have gotten the interview. You know what you think you’re worth but the phone isn’t exactly ringing off the hook so you’ll probably take whatever they offer even if it’s not what you think is fair.
One needs to look no farther than romantic imagery in the media to see how imbalanced the relationship process is in farang / farang relationships. How does a man show he loves a woman? He buys her roses, chocolates, diamonds, gold, and other gifts. If he’s truly the romantic type he does something huge like fly her off to Paris for an amorous holiday. How does a woman show she loves her husband? Well if we are to believe the media representation of farang / farang relationships then a peck on the cheek might be ample reward for those chocolates. Giving him sex might be the payoff for a diamond ring or a Paris holiday.
The idea of a man constantly showing his wife with gifts and affection is seen as romantic. The idea of a woman who showers her husband with signs of affection is seen as weak and of low self-esteem. In fact, if we’re to believe the media then the best gift a wife can give her husband is to leave him alone. How is the husband rewarded for mowing the lawn and taking care of the manly household chores? He’s allowed to watch football on television. What is the husband’s reward for taking his wife out to go see a "chick flick" which bored him to tears? He gets to go hang out with his mates for a boys night out.
Better yet, can you imagine seeing on television a show where after taking his wife out for a very expensive and romantic dinner his wife offered to give him a foot massage? Not the rub your big toe and then try to have sex type of massage but a proper hour long foot massage? Yet it would seem normal if a woman comes home from an exhausting day at the office, kicks off her shoes, and her husband massages her feet as she explains everything she’s been through that day. We call that kind of man romantic. In fact, that is the message that Western media promotes. Men being subservient to women is romantic and women being subservient to men is chauvinistic.
Don’t get me wrong, I don’t mean to say that love with a farang woman can’t be found or that you can’t find a farang woman who won’t jump through hoops to make the relationship as equal as possible but it’s much rarer in the Western world than in Thailand. From a social point of view this change in how equality has only occurred over the last 50 or 60 years. Back then you had housewives who took pride in performing their traditional roles. Interestingly, according to the University of Maryland, between 1950 and 2000 the number of divorces per 1000 women married more than doubled. Also of note is that the highest rate of divorce was during the 1970′s when women’s activism was at it’s peak. That’s obviously not enough data to make any sort of direct correlation but this blog post isn’t a PhD thesis so allow me some latitude.
And just as I’m not saying that finding love with a farang woman is impossible, I’m also not saying that Thai women are a piece of cake either. In addition to things like language and cultural issues you also have people who just don’t possess the qualities you look for in a partner and/or possess personality defects. I’ve dated more than a few girls who I hope to never see again even as a friend.
The bottom line is that I don’t agree with the people who think all farang women are fat, whining, bitches nor do I agree with the people who say that any man who dates a Thai woman is doing so for the sex, subservient attitude, or because he’s too much of a loser to find women back in the West. There are some very valid reasons why guys like to date Thai women and there are some very valid reasons why they don’t want to date Western women. It’s all about what we hope to find in a relationship. For instance, I have a mate I’ve known for well over 20 years. I’ve seen him go through countless relationships. The only long-term relationships he seems to have are with women who are controlling and dominating. He likes to be a bad boy. When he’s with submissive women he runs right over them. When he runs into a woman who wants to control him and tame him that is when he is the most happy. Unfortunately, that doesn’t work for me at all. I could never date the type of women he dates and he would never have a meaningful relationship with a Thai girl. We’re just wired differently.
That holds true for all men. There are some of us who aren’t satisfied with the type of women we meet in the West. That doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with those women. They just need to find someone who’s looking for that personality type. For us unsatisfied men, there are aspects of Thai culture that produce women who we’re more compatible with. Different strokes for different folks.
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TOO MANY SILLY COMMENTS….i GIVE UP!!!!!!!
To Ant45
I think you got the problem to fuck Thai girl.
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I live together since 20 years with my gf from Prague and when I have sex with a thai girl, is just the same as when I have a dessert after f lunch…I am not so stupid to love and live with a thai girl, …this belongs only to farangs with monority complex….i would never change my gf from prague with hundred of thai gooses
i dont see the difference to fuck a thai girls or eat an ice cream….yes there is a big problem to fuck thai girls…they problem is that they are too easy!!!!!
Why do you feel the need to go with Thai women when you claim to have such a perfect Prague girlfriend? My time in Prague taught me that there are some of the most beautiful and unspoilt women in Europe there… so why are you so dissatisfied with your sex life?
I find all of this talk of ‘Thai girls being too easy’ hard to understand especially when we’re talking about the ‘prostitute’ variety. Aren’t ALL prrostitues easy? otherwise they wouldn’t make much money playing hard to get would they? It’s what they do.
There are plenty of beautiful and virginal young Thai women in Thailand (as anywhere else)… but you’ll never find them in bars will you? Entering the world full of optimism they aren’t ever planning to be interested in having rough sex with some flabby old ‘farang’ pervert until bad life experience forces them to sell themselves to support the fall out of their previously unhappy relationship. How they are is how life has made them and it’s up to us to take them as they are or leave them alone.
After all…. isn’t half the fun of a conquest the challenge of getting the woman into bed? The journey is often more exciting than the arrival from my experience. Paying for it might be very easy but the excitement of the chase was always everything for me.
It’s all rather sad when you think about it and is it so wrong then for these girls to try and have a bit of fun with the fools who plan to use them for personal gratification?
i told you that i have gf from prague but sometime i dont mind to have some fun, same as dessert after lunch…why so long commentary to simple thing?
what is wrong with it?…..as long as eyes dont see, heart does not suffer
not only bars girls or prostitutesa…most of thai women are easy….nothing wrong with it as long as we dont marry them
Hey ant 45, How many Thai girl you have known? How came you pretty sure that you know us that much?…..not every Thai girl are easy. I am a Thai girl and I am not easy, my mom is not easy, my sisters are not easy, my friends are not easy and most of woman I know they are not easy. Do not say like that if you don’t know us…and I 100% believe that I know Thai women better than you…
hey ant45 i just want to know how many thai girl you have know?
Looks like a challenge Ant!
well, manny, finally somebody write nice way….I like very much that you write like that and I believe that you are not easy and if you really are so and if also most of thai women would be like you, then it makes Thailand a much much nicer Country to live, much more than now….and now is also wanderful to live in Thailand….
yes thailand need more serious women, not only exception like you, but at the same time, the kind of farangs who go meet women in Thailand, dont deserve good women….
so, to be or not to be, this is the question….
I like to meet women in thailand as friends to talk about many things and also to exchange opinions and learn better thai, but not easy, as long as farangs think about sex and thai women think about marry, it makes it vey boring. I wish I could meet really a woman in Thailand with thai smile and a little more sincere western mentality, also if keeping same time the wanderful thai culture, which is not the culture thai women explain to farangs as blackmails, but the real one
in % years I have met very manythai women and most at schools and government partyes and not at bars, because i dont drink dont smoke and this is why is no reason to go to bars, but I met also many bar girls when passing near bars….I met many many girls, especially women, not so young, because I am in a different enviroments , I have to do with schools and teachers and I dont tell you why….
I could write books about how may thai women asked me to marry or if I have friends who want to marry them and with the time being it was sweet boring….
how many I have met, i dont really keep the count, but I think that to meet women in thailand is not so difficult because thai women are also very friendly….
I am in Prague now and in about 3 weeks I will go stay in Laos, may be one year may be longer, but I really love Laos….so quite and respectful people….
I think ‘meeting a good woman’ is a global problem these days. Again I refer to my experiences here in the UK where the likelihood of meeting anybody worth knowing in bars and clubs is very small. Decent, respectable women are more likely to be found in the workplace and elsewhere where you can get to know each other slowly in a neutral environment away from alcohol and loud music. Tough to do for a foreigner in Thailand unless you are working or mixing with the local population.
Good luck in Laos Ant. I quite fancy going there myself to soak up the culture.
in laos no women ask me to marry and no bars for sex, but some ladyboys here and there tryng to approach naive tourists, but for sure women are not interested to approach farangs and no woman really ask a farng to marry her, though some farangs are married to laos women, but in a very very small percentage to compare with thailand….
This is a reason I like it here very much, no stress, quite life, friendly people with less smile, but very respectful. Honestly in Thailand is too commercial, too noisy everywhere, also if at the end to live in Thailand is on my opinion really nice….
I have been in London many times and also worked there in the early 70 and i loved London very much, may be best city to live in western world….
so many things to visit, churches museums gallery theaters and history of british empire….but that you like or not, most of art treasure in London is Italian, just look at the National Gallery at trafalgar square and the british museo and others places. I was in London first time in year 1962, i was a teeneger and I enjoyed the London smog when walking on westminster bridge and I loved to drink a coffee at “le macabre” at Soho and sometime a pint of guiness beer at the “dirty dick” pub at liverpol street/bishop gate….but this about drinking beers at dirty dick pub was at late 80….
I wish when I will be back in London to find all that again,,,,
I like London more than Bangkok, but I like thailand more than england…
I accept the challange:
Is not me to say, but google to explain about thai prostitutions being number one in the world. I can only simpatize with thai prostitution because girls are free to do it and because they are almosst all nice and sweet and no dangerous, because no racket no slavery and this is a great plus for Tailand, while in western prostitution is slavery racket and I dont understand how is possible to have sex with a girl who is under terror of her pimp…..there is a lot negative very bad about western prostitution and in Thailand to compare with western countryes, prostitution is like heaven and no hell….
But according to facility of having sex with thai women/girls, is a fact that is so very easy, especially when a thai women smell money and above all, smell marriage.
we dont consider women over 60 and girls under 18 and ladyboys and also women who know that they dont have any chance to approach a farang for several reasons here not to mention and also we dont consider very high class bangkok women who are in a level where no farang can get in.
But the other women not over mentioned, i mean not only and especially bar girls, but almost all who has problems with thai husbands, is looking for a farang to adjust her economical life, instead of tryng to save her marriage with her husband, Pattaya, koh samui, puket, udon, ubon, korat and so on ….so many hundred thousends of bars like nowhere in the world and all about drink and sex and of course each of those huge numbers of bar girls try also find farang husband.
Then also non bar women, when meet a farang, she try ask if he has already a thai women, may be to marry him or to introduce him her daughter or isters or friends and this happens almost everywhere there is a farang free, regardless if thai woman is government employee or work at farmacy or at market….
where else in the world is like that? may be only philippines and some other asian country, but according to statistic, thailand is number one for hunting farang to marry and for number of bar girls.
We are not blind, just look around and how many pretty snow white lovely thai girls walking proud with her hussband who is at least 30 years older and 40 kilo havyer and look like their grand father or the wives look like caregivers.
In fact here in italy we have many caregivers from filippines who accompany old men, because is their duty and look more or less like thai wives in thailand with old husbands….
where else in the world we see that? I dont think that in London is the same as it is absoulutely not in italy, because one woman in a milion may be would marry a man 30 years older and 2 times bigger and if happens, this is amongs italians persons….
so I dont mean that all thai women are like the ones i described here above, but you must admit that is impossible to be blind and dont see the facts….
so try LAOS, really so very much different, in Laos there is not the danger and criminality of western and also not the prostitution of most of asian country….I hope it will stay like that, and it can be as long as farangs dont come to Laos with the same mentality they go to Thailand
Ant 45, Thank you for your interesting informtion and openion. I will no longer reject for what you wrote all (bacuse I know I can’t change anyone openion), but let I tell something to you guys who want to came to Thailand for just having fun, sex, finding serious relationship, proofing something or whatever…if you meet any women/girls of us and you think she is what you call “hooker” or “farang hunter”, PLEASE do not try to play with them, do not even try to have fun because you think its a game, because if that woman/girl is not that kind of girl that you thought whether you know or not, but you are hurting one girl’s feeling. If you think that girl is not good or she is in low class for you, please do not marry her, do not even tell her how much you like her, do not give her any baht of money after she asks for. Please do not make her think that marriage with farang is the best choice to earning money and it is also a really wrong way to finding love. Please tell her the truth that you just want to have fun and no more longer relationship. Please let her know that what she have done are making people (esp. farang men) look down on most of Thai women/girls. If you are not sincere please do not lie to her, do not play with her…woman/girl are not a doll, they are human being. If you tell her all and she still do things that you have said, so I will accept that my beautiful Thai culture about Thai woman have been changed.
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I have read many of your comments (in many articles), seem that you like women in every coultry (you have been) but not Thai. Its ok, each person was born in different place so howcome their openions will be the same.
By the way, so sorry for my error Grammar
… I love to write Thai if people here can undersatand hahaha… really sorry!!
I think you’ll find that most of the ‘farang’ men who go to Thailand couldn’t care less about the minds of the women they have sex with and many will bring that selfish view with them.
It’s just about using a girl for as little money as they can get away with and moving on to the next one.
Not the way I see the world and there is a lot more to sex than just the physical side…. and quite honestly that is the best part. Never had a one night stand yet that I didn’t regret afterwards.
Its ok as long as those girls are doing their job and they can accept the deal…it is mutual benefit. For the general girls/women (who are not bar girl or prostitute but who loves to have farang as her bf or husband), most of them think that farangs guys are better thanThai guys (openion from some farang’ wife) they think farang men are more honest, loyal and will be a good house leader…and many of them think that farang men also want them to be his gf and wife (It is one reason that some of Thai girl wanna marry farang or not, I am not sure). If those women have chance to read the comments in this website like I do, they might know something a bit different from what they have thought.
you dont need to think that what I write is an opinion and I dont change my mind,….i wish I were wrong, but statistic and also facts confirm my opinion….thailand sex industry is what write Google and also other websides, so it is not a coincidence!!!
According to the behaviour of farangs who come to Thailand for sex, I agree in all what you both write, but dont forget that Thailand is sex oriented since Vietnam war and therefore blame somebody else and also blame those thai women who accept that way of living, because not only women are hurted, but also farangs. Dont forget how many farangs have lost all money and have invested in houses and cars for thai wife who married and divorced just to cheat her husband and be back with thai ex husband or new thai lover.
so there is to say bad about both sides….it takes two to tango somebody said.
I again think that both are wrong and both deserve what life bring them, but it seems that the sex life in Thailand will never have an end as long as the situation will not be changed from above….in Laos for example…..
as a matter of fact, in Laos is not at all like in Thailand according to easy sex and easy marriage and just ask why in Thailand is not the same.
In Italy we have more tourists than in Thailand, but not even one comes for sex and marry italian woman, because they are not on display same as thai girls…
But dont forget that thai prostitutions pay your salary and your pension if you live in Thailand, because about 2 milions of farangs drink avarage 5 beers a day and means 10 milions beer a day and miliards of bath in food and in cigarettes and in many other things and hundred thousend ìs of houses same as cars and all that is moving thai economy pretty well….as well as miliards of bath in thai banks from deposit money of farangs and this is all on top of real tourismus….
may be now you know why things will not change and why Laos is poorer than thailand
that I like women everywhere I go, you are right, but I never use words like ” fuck” and I always behave with high respect, also in Thailand , but I like women same a I like nice paintings or nice sculpture and all what is beautiful ( also beautiful inside), but for sure I dont like prostitution …..
“the beauty can save the world”, this is what the famous writer Dostoevskij told the world
The bottom line is that the sex industry is the creation of the Thai man, not the Farang. Let’s be honest and truthful about the Thai man, he always wants a new young girl who has not been molested by other men….as a result, it is itched in the Thai culture that the woman will get financial benefits from sex. Also, the Thai economy that pays very little for regular jobs directly encourages high paying prostitution jobs to be favorable to pretty Thai women (Isaan is very poor for example and most bar girls are from there). So you have these two components working together to allow the “illegal” prostitution to flourish in Thailand. Thailand gets billions of money from the sex industry and likes it!
The last and least important factor is the farang coming here and paying for sex. I say the least important because like it was mentioned above, most tourist will not look for sex in Europe, for example, because it is “NOT EASILY AND CHEAPLY AVAILABLE” there as it is so in Thailand and the Philippines (which is very similar to Thailand).
Take away the sex industry in Thailand, and many tourist will not come here and the Thai economy may collapse to even poorer levels.
I agree with Mando in almost everything, but I am not happy about it, because if we leave western world to find peace and relax in Thailand where people really smile and where the criminality is so very much less than in western, then the longer I was living in Thailand, the more I discover that is impossible in this world to find the perfect place, which I had the illusion that thailand was.
Too many bars, too much commercial,, people is too much interested in easy money an noisy noisy noisy evertwhere day and night and tuk tuk not respect people and offer sex to farangs and is impossible to have friends from Thailand, because women dont know what friendship with farangs is ….sex or marry or give me money….or go to hell and no chance to speak about culture of both country, thai culture is wanderful, but thai women uses it as blackmails and if I want to learn about thailand and its culture and about buddhismus, I do reading books or speaking with monks when i visit temples.
Again I confirm that Laos is better to learn about buddhist culture and for relax and also for food, because in Laos you can choose all best international restaurants and also lao food is not much different from Thai food…..
udon thani is near Vientiane, but when I go out in Udon, i see bars day and night and farangs drink and with bar girls day and night and all this does not cheer my heart, because I have a completely different idea about approach a woman or how to talk to native people, this is why I love Laos and I like to live there.
sorry to say that thailand is not the country to be happy like people might think,
Thailand is everyday more and more fucked off for the reason we know and that the only farangs who can still love Thailand are the tourists who come with family for short stay and couple on honeymoon on short holiday, apart that, the only happy farangs in Thailand are the bars customers drunk and arrogant and not certenly interested in Thai culture…..and I dont think it will change in better in the future….
Some good words here.
It’s all about ‘supply and demand’ and as long as these girls are abused by the outside world the longer it will go on.
Having said that…. who’s going to help bring up the abandoned children in Thailand if the sex trade money dries up?
It’s a vicious circle unfortunately.
i am just an human being and I dont know how to solve problems of that dimension, but Thailand is a big Country and you should have somebody above to do it
In Italy we have bigger problems like high criminality, mafia, bad economy, but State at least is strongly engaged to fight prostitution which is made of foreigners girls and italian clients and Police not allow prostitution on streets also if is not easy to do it and police stop clients and punish italian client who stops and talk with a prostitute on the street, but is a very hard duty and not easy, because prostitution belong to organized mafia/raket and they are powerful…..
also sex websides are under control of police in italy, especially to fight pedofilie and believe me, if an italian tourist is discovered to go to Thailand to Cuba and to Philippines for sex touristic reason, he might be punished by our low and this has happenesìd many times already…..
but as long as Governments dont really help fight against prostitution and dont punish pimps and clients very very hardly, what can we do? nothing!!!!!!!!!
but why in Laos it has succeded to avoid prostitution? can anybody tell me?
I think we can thank the US GI’s for a lot of the prostitution which is happening in the Far East today. Too late to turn the clock back now and undo the carnage they caused (and still are today) with their brutal war machine.
Maybe in Laos the population refused to let the GI’s destroy their culture whereas Thailand the Phillipines and Viet Nam just took the money?
I agree….and also killed so many people from Cambodia vietnam indonesia and placed over 4 milions mines in Laos and now come to asia as heros and have sex and may be marry with girls whose parents were kill fom them or from their fathers…finally manny understand a little more than the others….
usa soldiers had problems with sex in Vietnam, because vietnam girls hated them and killed them also during having sex, therefore they went to Thailand where was no such dangers and went to Pattaya and now look at it…..
yes I agree with Mando in one way and with manny in the other way….less us and less uk men in Thailand= much less prostitution and much less volgarity
in Laos UK men are just tollerated and US men are not so welcome and from time to time in the laos countryside they kill now and them a farang and look at it….is always a US man!!! what a coincidence……
Laos is multi european cultural country and is a wanderful place to live or at least to visit
I think to compare the two countries half the problem as they are so opposite. I have to say that I’m glad I’m not a young buck anymore and so my testosterone levels are falling. The joy of this is that I can now see the world in a different way and sex isn’t at the front of my mind!
I still like a pretty girl and am not quite done yet…. but there are other things to interest me now and life is a lot less stressful.
I agree completely…..
sex is too easy and bring emptiness if not real feelings are there, or at least admiration for your partner or partners….for example, i find easy sex very boring and dont make me happy, but when I see the smile of Aung san suu kji, I feel so very happy and my heart full of joy and she is not a young girl at all, but much much better
Lol ant45, people who fuck Slavs in Czech, Hungary, Poland etc are considered as much “losers” as the guys who go to Asia… Only in their mind they try to make up that because the woman is tall and/or blond she’s some what worth better than the other sex tourist’s bride… It’s all in your mind man. Personally I would not touch one of those Tatianas with a 3m pole… they all look like if they were ready to take the leftovers of my meal in a plastic bag…
My gf in Cz republik is a doctor and I dont have intimity with other woman in east europe, even if I am not blind and see that they look great and much more beautiful than thai….this is a fact
rest of the above commentary is just a confirmation of volgarity and not need and reply, to whom use low class words
Cz republik, Poland Hungry east Ger,any, the baltic republica slovenia….
all ex comunistas Countries, now have reache an economical level and social system same as western europe, so there is still somebody who thinks that
situation there is as was 20’30 years ago….women are very indipendent and dont
just go with everybody anymore
The social system there is much better than in the USA, where are 30 milions homeless and notwithstanding they have money to spring from war to war and in spite of the homeless within the country….
there are other eastern countries which economy is not so good (ukraina, moldavia Georgia and so on) but in those poor countries, a prostitute can ask you easily 500 us dollars for a night, so it is not so easy as somebody think….wake up folk!!!!!!……dont write what you dont know……
here are 2 ant45 and one is a looser hahahahahahaha (he likes to be looser this is why that name here)
Ant, just before you got called out by the Saranyah, you had been refering to Thai females being “easy” and to prove that, you use them for your own sexual gratification, along the lines of “dessert after lunch”, and apparently behind the back of your GF in some ex-commie Eastern Block shit hole frequented by Arabs who go there for white skin sex as an alternative to SE Asia. Yes, we know about it, they are easy too. Dumbass.
But, your GF’s a Doctor, I’m glad you said that, now we know you are respectable. Right? Wrong.
Respectable Eurotrash boyfriend of a Doctor, who apparently spends his time in Laos (a current impoverished commie shit hole) but of course you go there for the “culture”. I see. Once you’ve had enough of that “culture”, you slip over the border then for a little Thai ice cream dessert…..after lunch.
So, now it makes sense why you seem time commenting on a Thai blog site slagging off Thai women.
You are a loser of the highest order and Saranyah had you pegged correctly right from the start and so does the “AntIsALoser” person.
how can somebody be able to write so many nonsenses?
I think you take everything so seriously
we dont see with either eyes that is all, but you can express your opinion with less volgarity
honestly i did not read what somebody name Hypocrate wrote, I notice just a quicly look about bad words and too long commntary, especially if written from Hypocrate , then i decide not to read…because I dont have interest for loosers and for hypocrate, but for normal persons with all kind of opinions or of personal experience….all other comments go quick to recycler, sorry.
did you find your name by looking at mirror?
my gf doctoe HanaK is my gf since over 20 years and she also in Asia Thailand Laos some months of the years
I dont know so much about Laos culture, i just work here and I noticed the huge difference in behaviour (you can call it culture if you like), Laos women dont push dont scrounger and keep distance from farangs, is a fact, go there and you will see
about thai woman easy like dessert, was only to explain my opinion that thai women, for pleasure money or whatever…are really easy for sex, the rest of my commentary was not to take so seriously as if this blog represent the bible, but should be more for information one to the other and at the end thailand is just a country and not the country and prostitution, that you like or not, is the visit card of the country, as well as it is true that the highest numbers of sex toursts or farangs resident in thailand for sex reason are from usa and uk. who usually dont speak oxford or cambridge english, but a very low class and volgar and the problem is that thai women learns those bad words easily.
That thai women are easy, does not mean 1005 are…then that it is due to many reason, it is another matter, I may be exagerate with words like dessert and so on, but it does not change the substance
I dont know about arabs in eastern countryes, I have met Hana 1991 in Venice and I stay in prague very shortly now and then and she is most of the time with me either in italy or in other country….mostly for work
the only problem to fuck thai women and girls is that they are too easy
farangs hate farangs women? bullshit…..only some do or he who go to thailand becaus easy pussy there….like thai women? only when are in bed for sex, then like only to drink all day….se to believe
Farangs man don’t hate farangs woman! Actually after having a relation with a Thai woman, they start appreciating more the values which a farang woman brings into the relationship! This article sends the wrong message. Perhaps the editor has a Thai woman, and wrote this to please her hahahah!
I agree GMA ON…
thai women dont take care farangs, only care their money…as soon as a big problem arise, they dont give a damm and if an old farangs is sick, they dont know what an aspirin is and you must pay milions bath at Bangkok hospital, because other hospital dont even know what is magnet resonanz..and best is if farangs go back to their hspital in western
farangs women fight together with farangs for solutions of problems or for better life…thai women if you dont have everything for them and for their family, they send you to hell and let you die…
To generalize about farangs wha hate farangs women is strong defamation, slander an to say that they like thai women is simplz deep stupiditz and bullshit…they only like to fuck in thailand…what else?
I suggestthe editor to change at once this title, otherwise we will organize a blog about stupid discriminating blog in favour of thai peostitution…a blog of bog dimension including twitter and facebook…
stopthis nonsense please, in your interest
close this stupid webside, billy bangkok is an exibitionist…why not call him bill puket ot bill udon thani?
if you like thai bugs so much, keep it for yourself and dont write stupidity..
this webside is simply trash and must be closed at once before somebody will pay the consequences
Francis,He will not close this stupid website because he is earning money via advertising on it. Instead, he should improve it and add interesting and motivational subjects/topics. This topic is really scandalous and personally I don’t see any benefit for both Thais or Farangs living in LOS! Just puts more “heat on fire”!
he is provocating really hate against him…me must have minority complex…everybody in the world knows that thai women dont look so good, but are only very easy to fuck…compare with real western beauties they look almost like monkeys…but this stupid webside is trying confusing readers…only few frustrated farangs hate farangs women and like thai women only for easy sex…how can people have nice words for women who represent sex industry and the easyest women in the world to fuck and the worst women to stay together, because they are always beggars and torture farangs with blackmails excuse to love their families?
I think that this webside is misleading naive weak people who dont know thai women yet…
one thing is to love thailand as a country for holiday and another thing is to love for sex…when i read what bill bancock writes, i feel like throwing out…so much involved in stubborn stupid fantasy….
I met many thai women, but i was oo clever for them, because i have been around the world for work…but am so sorry for the farangs who have been cheated by monkeys tai women and for the ones who will be cheated in future…but is their faults
this webside is to be considered dead….no more commentary since many months…the stupidity seems to have come to an and by itself…..
we only need to boycott all other webside like this and never forget that thailand is country number one for prostitution and is called sex industry…..what else???