Comments on: No Chance For Men in Farangland

By: Will

Will — Sat, 27 Jun 2009 19:32:10 +0000

@Billy/Trudie-

I’m gonna say it.

Trudie, you’re a washed up, short-haired, Burkenstock wearing, Alanis Morrissette loving, late 40 year old lesbian feminine activist douche and you most certainly are a bitch.

Billy’s got a brain.

That’s all.

By: avi

avi — Sun, 07 Dec 2008 17:54:09 +0000

Get over it, trudie. You are a typical farang woman. Nice guys dont know how to dress. Why do ladies care soo much about dress? And even more so about shoes? The FIRST thing they notice is shoes. Huh? I too had a relationship (still repenting) with an all american dame. I am Indian, that dame was Indian origin, but all NYC attitude. I still remember the first date, her first bitchy comment. she commented to herself. ” I never even used to look at a guy who wears sneakers.” I should have shot back,”Excuse me, but do you look at a guy or his sneakers?” I should have dropped her like a hot potato, right there and then, I am still repenting. Compare this to the attitude of any thai girl willya?

By: Trudie

Trudie — Thu, 11 Sep 2008 13:33:48 +0000

Moon

I have seen lots of genuine Thai/farang unions – I have friends who are married to Thai women and believe me they are genuine. I have also had a boyfriend from a different race than my own. In my experience here so far though there are a lot of unions which are based on the man getting sex with an attractive Thai woman and her getting financial freedom – I don’t think that is necessarily wrong. What I do think is wrong – and if you read some of the articles about women on this site – is that these men are nasty about farang women and have a degrading attitude to all women – including the bar girls. I know a lot of Thai women and they are interested in one thing with a man – ‘love’. Unfortunately Bangkok is all about men – what they want, what they can get – and the problem is that many Thai women also feel that they are treated like prostitutes by men – both Thai and farang. It is great to see men and women respecting themselves and each other. The problem with a lot of the bar girls or the women you see in Emporium is that because they sell themselves it has a negative impact on all us women. It makes men see us as pieces of meat. We all need to take responsibility. I do believe in love and I know many Thai women who love their farang men and the other way round. I also see a lot of farang men looking at women like they are nothing because they have lots of Thai women selling themselves because they want the farang money. Moon go to Emporium, go to Nana and Soi Cowboy and maybe you can see where I am coming from.

By: Billy Bangkok

Billy Bangkok — Fri, 18 Jul 2008 14:14:09 +0000

Moon,

Thank you so much for sharing. I wish more Thai men and women would read blogs like this so we could hear different points of view.

Billy

By: Moon

Moon — Fri, 18 Jul 2008 11:55:06 +0000

What an interesting point of view !! …The Foreigners’ !!
I am a Thai woman.. Yes..I agree all. We love to take care of our man. But Trudie..can I ask you a thing ?
— And I am sorry but men who are the ones who like to control – hence the fact that they love being with a woman who thinks her ships come in when she get the old western guy to take her shopping in Emporium–
Please don’t say these words to all Thai woman.Some of us are like what you said.My boyfriend is a farang,too. Have you ever seen a Thai woman who loves a farang man by heart and mind ?
We are women..and I understand what we need from them..We are the same,but we-Thai women- try to accept what they can give to us…with happiness and sometimes not.
That’s my opinion only.

By: lil somchai

lil somchai — Wed, 16 Jul 2008 01:53:59 +0000

khun trudie na, khun na ja ull kwoi isaan dum gup yai gup yarl mak siep doot. khun trudie ja sabai na non.

By: Giacomo

Giacomo — Tue, 15 Jul 2008 11:57:12 +0000

trudie, you sure found the right place to get release for your hostility. Please, don’t be discouraged. We need so one to give us critic. (Please, don’t go Freudian on me on that one! I do mean written/verbal critic) You see, we do need it! or we might just lose our sense of reality in T-land!

By: Billy Bangkok

Billy Bangkok — Mon, 14 Jul 2008 22:18:31 +0000

Sorry, Trudie. Go peddle your crap elsewhere.

By: trudie

trudie — Mon, 14 Jul 2008 22:03:45 +0000

How ironic Billy. You and your friends on here are tainted by male chauvanist dogma. Why do you hope that someone ‘moves on’ because they are saying things you don’t agree with? What makes you think my comments have no vailidity.

You talk about western women emasculating you and I am inclined to agree because the comments from a lot of men on here is pretty lacking in what it takes to be a real man.Although I think you probably lost your bollocks a long time before western women starting nipping at them!

By: Billy Bangkok

Billy Bangkok — Mon, 14 Jul 2008 21:52:40 +0000

Trudie,

Your views are so obviously tainted with femnista dogma I choose not to engage you any more in the hopes you move on.

Ciao,

Billy