Female sex tourism in Thailand: My girlfriend had paid sex with a Thai boy

By Anonymous

January 9, 2009

Sometimes ago I went public with a rather unusual and humiliating experience in Thailand in regard to female sex tourism. During our Thailand holidays my farang girlfriend actively looked for Thai guys and was finally bedded by a young Thai lover.

I initially intended to find out, to how many other farang males something similar happened, either if their girlfriends went alone to Thailand or they even travelled even together with their farang boyfriends, like in my case.  From the partially very abusive and insulting reactions I understood, that I probably touched a total taboo subject. Others readers doubted my experience at all. It is a “tables are turned” situation in a country, which is by some considered as a sex paradise for male Westerners only. Today, I can only conclude that my case is a real rare one, or it happens much more often but the humiliated farang males felt so demeaned, that none ever talks openly about it.

Nevertheless, I still believe that I am probably not they only farang, who had to accept to share his girl with a Thai competitor, or otherwise lose her.  Therefore I try again to start a discussion on this taboo subject and hope for some more serious and honest replies:  As a student from Germany I visited Thailand together with my girlfriend some
years ago for the first time. Claudia and I were together for three years and she never cheated on me nor did I on her. She is a good looking girl and rather conservative minded. But already during our initial visit I recognized how much she was fascinated by young athletic Thai guys. On the other hand she became extremely jealous when I dared to have a quick look at Thai girls or any other females.

However, probably women’s sexuality must be stronger than a conservative mind set: During our second visit she admitted having sexual fantasies about Thai guys, which I had already suspected for some time! Once having ousted her fantasies and when she realized that she rather provoked a depressed reaction on my side than an outrage, I was totally surprised how she kept pushing on with her ”ideas” with great stubbornness…to let them finally become reality! Only later Claudia admitted that she would not have had dared to ever tell me again her fantasies, would I have reacted outraged. But my reaction obviously boosted her self-confidence to try to let her fantasies come somehow true and not to bury them under feelings of shame and guilt. From this point onwards something changed between us: From day to day she showed more and more openly her interest in Thai men …obviously interpreting my embarrassing helplessness to cope with the situation as silent consent (…which it was not!). There was less and less hiding of her sexual desires and no more false excuses for me…

I do not like to reveal all the details, they are embarrassing and I know, a lot of farang and Thai guys will laugh at me, when reading this report. Anyway, after a week or so she was mentally ready to make an approach. Claudia persuaded me to join her out to some boys bars, ..driven by her desire, but still hesitating. After long lasting and luring eye-contact with young Thai guys, it seemed to me that they quicky understood, what the young farang lady was after but were irritated by my presence. I hated it to see all this youngster queuing for Claudia and asked myself, if they are more greedy for her body or our holiday bugdet. It took two or three nights more and instinctively we both new that my “escorting her” had became obsolete. She finally became confident enough to roam alone, but always came back early.

It was some days later, when she got a call on her mobile while we were spending the afternoon at our hotel pool at the Golden Palace Hotel, off Sukhumvit Road in Bangkok. She became very exited…and after a while asked me into my face, if I can live with the fact that she intends to date a Thai boy that night, whom she met a night before. I was very jealous but I saw in her eyes how extremely exited she was to date the guy and we both knew well…tonight it will be for paid sex. I asked her ’Claudia, are you really sure…?!’ She swallowed and nodded silently and said ‘Rainer….it has nothing to do with you….it is simply…’.

She intended to take the Thai boy out for some romantic dinner and then come back to the Golden Palace Hotel. She as well as I felt more secure to let it happen in our place, rather then in some unknown seedy place. At the Golden Palace Hotel we were sure that outward guests are all registered, when staying in a guest’s room. On the one hand Claudia wanted to have her first experience with a young Thai stranger in secure, comfortable and familiar surroundings, but on the other hand, she wanted me to be safely excluded and not to spoil in any way what was meant to be her perfect sex. (Later she admitted that she was at this time very insecure, if I, in the end, would not lose my temper and do something stupid, respectively totally freak out in the hotel floors once after I have realised that she is naked on the sheets with the Thai guy!). Strange enough, instead of my burning jealousy, I simply assured her that I will respect her privacy…probably instinctively sensing that my girlfriend was expecting me to no longer be an obstacle to her very special sexual desire. I surrendered to the inevitable situation and hoped all will be fast forgotten after a one night stand, what will hopefully satisfy her desire for good.

Before she went out that evening Claudia rented a second room on another floor for the remaining time in Bangkok without revealing the room number to me. Later that night we left together the Golden Palace Hotel, turned from Soi 1 on to the Sukhumvit Road. In a pharmacy near Siam Square Claudia bought the obligatory condoms. A guy at the counter gave us a dirty smile and said in bad English: “You have fun…!” I thought desperately jealous ‘….for some lucky Thai penis!’ We stepped out into the warm air of a busy Bangkok night.

She checked again nervously her own room key, and the condoms in her handbag.  There was something like a ‘oohh, please understand!’ in her eyes when she hugged me and gave me a hasty kiss. Then we separated. ‘There goes my girl, ‘… to meet her date…,’ I thought.

I sat frustrated in one of the cinema complexes at Siam Square and then spent a poor night in an empty double-bed, not daring to imagine what was happening behind one of the doors on an upper floor. I never asked my girlfriend what she paid for the ‘service’ she received. (Claudia remained silent on those nights and I finally respected her privacy).

After a sleepless night, I went down to the breakfast room and passed by the reception. The two Chinese guys of the night shift saw me approaching stopped immediately talking and were extremly polite to me, but when I just left the reception on to the yard they started giggling and I had the suspicion they were amusing themselves on my expense.

I entered the breakfast room and saw Claudia with her new lover at a table. I will never forget how pleased and satisfied she looked, when our eyes first met incidentally. The very attentive Thai guy next to her was relatively tall. I remember how his black hair fall over his forehead and covered one of his eyes.  The other one was aggressively watching me.

They let me approach, looked at each other, then Claudia and the Thai gave me a humiliating smile and invited me to join breakfast at their table. The young Thai was clever enough to immediately exploit my insecurity and weakness, when he touched my girlfriend openly in front of me and watched her enjoying his hand on her naked leg. He managed to shatter the rest of my self-confidence and within hours he suffocated my last resistance. What I hoped to be a forgettable one night stand turned out to become a take over of my girl for the remaining holidays. He made it absolutely clear that he would stay in the ‘driver’s seat’ for the rest of our holidays, having good sex and being paid for it by a farang girl! On the other hand I understood from Claudia that she somehow enjoyed the macho-behaviour of her non-western exotic lover and
that the Thai showed no respect whatsoever for the fact that I had been her boyfriend for so many years. Claudia spoke to me for a long time and tried to convince me that it is really only a sex affair with the Thai. She tried to comfort me but was also clear that he will bed her exclusively.  Eventually I retreated fearing to lose my girl and his aggressivness towards me decreased.

The winner takes it all!

Later I assisted Claudia to move her remaining cloths from our room to her new room. The Thai was in the bathroom showering.  I saw his and her cloth scattered all over the carpet, the toilette paper on the side table and the bed sheets in total disorder. I remember how I swallowed and until today I  imagine how they undressed, how he got on top of her and started thrusting my moaning girl.

It happened all so fast that after the holiday I was emotionally struggling for a long time. After our return Claudia did not cheat on me and proved that she was, after all, only interested in hot sex with a young Asian. Occasionally she still sends him some money, but I can live with this.  Today I am still together with Claudia and we have engaged. We are honest enough to each other to accept that she will go out again to look for a suitable partner, if we ever go to Thailand again.

Apart from trying to start a discussion on the subject of female sex tourism in Thailand it is for me important to send this report to all those, who still believe that:

1.  Asian guys are unable to satisfy farang ladies because of their again and again repeated “myth of smaller penis size” ,

2.  who still believe that women sexuality is restricted to certain pattern /  types. Claudia overcame her shyness…and finally did only that openly, what many girls, housewives, etc. might secretly think: To enjoy a tropical night with a perfect lover with no regrets.

Rainer

Category: Bangkok Nightlife, People, Popular, Tourist Life

172 thoughts on “Female sex tourism in Thailand: My girlfriend had paid sex with a Thai boy

  1. My thoughts are that I have no right to judge you,, but my true feelings are that any person that doe sthat to another person does not really love them, I mean truly love, even though this might turn you on, its not very healthy emotional, mentaly or spiritually, it is reallly damaging to your self esteem, even though I have fantsized about my GF doing the samething, I controle my fantsizes, and pray to have those kind of desires leave me, becuase I know theer are negetive and are NOT based on love, they are based on sex and for most men, it starts with watching too much porno, we are all humans and we fall at times, but striving for the truth and moral relationships have great rewards, I have done much to curb my negitives desires and pray for healthy sexuall desires with my GF that I love very much, I have never cheated on her and I pray she never cheated on me, we love each other very much and both agree that to actualy do an act like that would be very destructive

  2. women desires sex same as men and even more, but they dont like to tell around.
    probably many women would have done the same if they could, or they do and know how to hide it. Men are too much busy to descibe their sex heros performances, while women do it and dont rell it around

  3. patrick on said:

    I cannot believe what I read! no ofense, but I think u lost your balls somewhere along the way! No physicaly and psychicaly healthy man will ever accept something like this… I think u need a shrink…

  4. yes right, probably in middle age or in muslins countryes, men are free to do what they want and go with all women they want and women must only accept….we live in different century and in free world and women can do what they want also sex with other men if husband or boy friend is “schlapschwanz” ….(german word)

  5. You are a fucking idiot! I would die before letting that happen.
    I felt completely uncomfortable reading this, feeling ashamed for you.
    Touching her leg during the breakfast in front of you, man, you are a fucking pussy. You are a fucking disgrace for a men society.
    I can’t believe what I just read.
    And you end up marrying that bitch. Fucking moron.

  6. francis on said:

    touching her legs during the breakfast, touching her cock at lunch and may be eating it for dinner….is a nice program….may be that thai man was just helping her farang boy friend who was not so good at sex…happens….and got money for overtime …….

  7. dear Dogy 25
    make sure that while writing about touching legs at breakfast, sametime sobody is not touching legs of your gf

  8. Francis, I’m sorry for your experience. You should be more careful about the type of girls you end up in relationship with, and then take care more about your girlfriend…

  9. i am not so stupid to come to thailand with my gf
    am not so tupid to have a thai gf….let the sexual maniac do it
    sex with thai girl ok, pay and bye bye
    I dont take my gf to thailand as well as I dont travel to germany and take beer with me and i dont travel to italy and take spaghetti with me
    I have spent all my life traveling from greenland to new yealand and i understand the world….
    if a thai man touch his gf legs…he must realize that he has a cheap gf….there are many good women in the world, just try to want to find them…..
    of course a gf who like to have sex with somebody else is to leave immediately and dont tell around, just quick close the case

  10. Rainer on said:

    @francis: yes, the farang boyfriend was not as good in thrusting as the thai guy was,….but I am still together with Claudia and she does not betray me in hiding like maybe many other women do….! She simply loves to have occassionally sex with young asian guys….not more, not less….how many guy betray their girls…?

  11. francis on said:

    yessss many many, may be almost all to be honest and I am sure everybody agree…..farangs go to asia and have wives at home and have sex with many asian women and also farangs with asian gf, do ocasionally have sex with other women…. and we complain if one woman do the same……nowdays have sex is too easy, but at least at catholic church when you marry with catholic eligion, you cannot divorce fom God, but at buddhismus when you marry with buddha, is only for sinsod…so everybody can marry 1000 times and never get a piece of paper an thai women when marry often especially with farangs, can have many sinsods….hope you understand what I mean
    in other words, so easy marry so easy sex, why we expect faithfull and loyalty from the other partners…especially under buddhismus….which means…have sex as much as you can as long as you like and somebody pazs…and buddha smile
    but is missing the imput in your love story….may be i did not follow…..how old are you and how old is she and how old the thai lover…and also how do you all look, because all story is innteresting and entairtaining, but we must use our fantasy to figure out the content…..

  12. francis on said:

    yessss many many, may be almost all to be honest and I am sure everybody agree…..farangs go to asia and have wives at home and have sex with many asian women and also farangs with asian gf, do ocasionally have sex with other women…. and we complain if one woman do the same……nowdays have sex is too easy, but at least at catholic church when you marry with catholic eligion, you cannot divorce fom God, but at buddhismus when you marry with buddha, is only for sinsod…so everybody can marry 1000 times and never get a piece of paper an thai women when marry often especially with farangs, can have many sinsods….hope you understand what I mean
    in other words, so easy marry so easy sex, why we expect faithfull and loyalty from the other partners…especially under buddhismus….which means…have sex as much as you can as long as you like and somebody pays..and buddha smiles
    but is missing the imput in your love story….may be i did not follow…..how old are you and how old is she and how old the thai lover…and also how do you all look, because all story is innteresting and entairtaining, but we must use our fantasy to figure out the content…..

  13. Rainer on said:

    …at the time when it happened I was nearly 30, she 21 and her thai lover maybe around 19 or 20 years old….
    Rainer

  14. francis on said:

    I think we are all curious now of how she looks like and also the thao boys and you and how was the performance of that boy…better than yours or just curiousity…i know thai men cannot compare in sex performance with young or middle age farangs, therefore was just curiousity from her side…..
    may be you should sray more near her and have sex more often so she will have no power for othermen…but may be you also not have so much power….
    have you been with a thai girls while you have been with her in thailand? women love to revance….

  15. francis on said:

    anyway what I can understand from Reiner story is that farangs pay to fuck thai girls and farangs girls fuck for pleasure without money with farangs boys…….is not that so?

  16. BILLY on said:

    GO BACK TO THAILAND AND FUCK AS MANY BAR GIRLS AS YOU CAN AND TAKE PICS AND VIDEOS AND SEND THEM TO HER !!!!

  17. rainer, if i were u, i would have done threesome that nite & next morning, leave that fucking bitch for good. I hope your penis is fine. Oh if your gf got tired with thai boys, she can come to Myanmar & get laid with myanmar boys too. LoL

  18. jason on said:

    go to any beach bar at night, on any of the thai islands, and you can see farang girls with thai guys.

  19. Hi
    I feel really sorry for you but you should have called a classy call girl for yourself. Why let her enjoy and you can’t that’s not fare.

  20. erik on said:

    while they are visiting SE Asia, i think many european and western girls want to try sex with an asian guy. this is not a big deal.

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