Comments on: Why Do Farang Men Travel Across The Globe To Meet Thai Prostitutes?

By: blueChimp

blueChimp — Sat, 03 Dec 2011 09:45:51 +0000

so true,
I’ve been to Amsterdam and Thailand
Amsterdam girls gives a very bad service
compare to Thai girls
Amsterdam = beautiful scam
Thailand = the real thing
go to Thailand you wont regret…

By: MEGALITHIC

MEGALITHIC — Mon, 22 Nov 2010 15:14:28 +0000

Billy Bangkok: What you say is not surprising given the fact that Thai women are no different to women in any other part of the world in that they will always look to find the best possible male provider they can find. I’ve spoken about this before; it’s encoded in their DNA and nothing’s changed since the days when we were all running around in bear skins. A womens primary concern is security (food, clothing, shelter) and that, in these modern times, simply means money.

Your friend stuck around with her on line dates long enough to determine if they could provide her with the type of lifestyle she desires/expects. When it became obvious that they couldn’t provide what she expected, she moved on. The higher up you go on Thailands’ societal ladder you go, the greater the expectations will be. Educated middle class and hi-so women are, obviously, going to have higher expectations than their low-so sisters.

Knitpa: There are many reasons why people move on; financial constraints, differing educational levels, differing expectations, cultural and language differences, boredom, or that they are just incompatible. The reason that so many people never find the ‘one’ is simply because they don’t know what they want. With the number of divorces happening in this day and age (particularly in the Western world) one could assume that something is not quite right. The fact is that so many people get together, in a relationship, that just shouldn’t be together; they are just incompatible.

I was in a relationship with a Thai lady for four years which nearly drove me insane. After finally terminating it I decided to look at things from a different perspective and began doing a bit of research into chinese astrology (pleae note: I’m not interested in the views of christians regarding astrology so don’t waste your time trying to convince me that it’s not true. I have the same firm conviction regarding your ideas about god) and found that alot of what was said regarding the character profile of myself, and my ex, was spot on. To put it bluntly, any attempt to forge a relationship, between her and I, would end up as an unmitigated disaster. And that, was precisely what it was; there was just no connection at the cerebral level. I have great respect for the chinese belief systems. They have been tested, and proven, over thousands of years. There is definitely something worth taking note of when considering the idea that the five elements – fire, metal, wood, water, earth – have a degree of influence in who, and what, we are. Your zodiacal year of birth will correspond with one of the five elements:

http://www.findyourfate.com/chineseastro/elements.htm

Knowing that will give you a better estimation of wether, or not, you and a potential partner will be compatible.

Hostile (or repulsive) pairings are as follows: Water dislikes Fire; Wood dislikes Earth; Fire dislikes Metal; Earth dislikes Water; Metal dislikes Wood (my element is metal and the ex is fire).

Destructive pairings are as follows: Water can extinguish Fire; Wood can break the Earth; Fire can melt Metal; Earth can make Water disappear; Metal can break Wood.

Affinity (generating and supporting) relationships are: Water generates Wood – Water is the mother of Wood; Wood generates Fire – Wood is the mother of Fire;
Fire generates Earth – Fire is the mother of Earth; Earth generates Metal – Earth is the mother of Metal; Metal generates Water – Metal is the mother of Water.

Good luck.

By: DJ Jay Double

DJ Jay Double — Mon, 22 Nov 2010 12:48:43 +0000

It is not just Thai women. This kind of fuggery happens all over. Evey chick looking for a better deal to only settle down in their 30′s when they star to sag ans crack. They are just like day traders, always looking for that extra bit of security and profit margin. It is what it is. People need to stop lying to themselves and just enjoy the pleasant moments, no matter how brief. Life is too short.

By: Knitpa

Knitpa — Mon, 22 Nov 2010 08:19:05 +0000

@ bill. i do agree with you that what happened in our society .
Sound like we all do that .. i think most of human being want the best for themselves . they will keep looking until they find” the one ” who they think to be mr or miss right but only time that will tell who lucky found one or who happen to found the fake one then life turn to be other way so we have to start looking over again and again.. that call life .. live to learn
i think men do that as well not only woman .. part of want to be the best .. even when they got married sometime people still looking .. coz of they still think that they can find better ( i guess they not happy with each other. i think if the people happy with their relationship they not looking any more ).. it shame but that how SOME people are never stop looking ..

By: Billy Bangkok

Billy Bangkok — Mon, 22 Nov 2010 04:44:18 +0000

Belgium Girl: It’s really not that different for many non-pro Thai girls too. I know plenty of non-pros juggling multiple boyfriends or keeping their options open by chatting with guys on the internet.

For instance, a girl I met this girl at a party a mutual friend was throwing. Nice, normal, university educated, middle-class girl with a middle-class job. We hit it off and started seeing each other. Not just once a week or anything but like five or more times a week sort of dating. Dinner, movies, just hanging out over some drinks, etc.

About two months into this she tells me that she has some bad news. She’s been chatting with some guy online for about six months and he’s coming to visit Thailand in a few weeks and she has promised to meet him.

I was obviously upset but not really angry. I hadn’t really pictured her for “the type” but it was obvious she was exactly this type. She had this guy online but wasn’t sure she would ever meet him so she got herself some insurance on the side in case that didn’t work out. When he finally confirmed his travel plans it was time to get rid of the insurance and go for her first choice.

The funny part is she actually tried to string me along hoping I would wait patiently in case this guy turned out to be a loser in person. I told her I had no interest and moved on with my life.

So Mr. Internet came to Thailand, they had a whirlwind romance, she posted pics of them together and videos all over Facebook telling everybody on her friends list that this was her true love and she was sooooo happy with her life.

Fast forward two months later and he dumped her and suddenly I’m getting emails from her again. I had already started seeing someone else and told her that but she kept asking me out “to talk about what happened between us” and other bullshit.

Finally she got the message and moved on. Now she’s got a new internet love that she’s announced to everyone on Facebook. Who knows when he’s coming out here but I notice that she gets tagged in photos of “crazy nights out” every weekend with all of her girlfriends so I’m fairly sure she’s gotten herself a new insurance guy on the side in case her latest internet man of her dreams turns out to be less than what she imagined.

And this isn’t an isolated incident. I have plenty of female Thai friends and I see them pulling the same thing. Then they bitch and moan about how they are so unlucky with love.

Of course, because they’re Thai and don’t take well to criticism you can’t tell them that they’re the ones screwing up their relationships. They’re out there juggling guys and as soon as they get one they’re looking to upgrade.

By: one thai girl living in belgium

one thai girl living in belgium — Wed, 17 Nov 2010 13:48:51 +0000

yes I like Sara’s idea , Farang Pros they just do their works and then finish , but thai Pros. they just want something more..its pity. and many many (stupid) men who belive her stories , he was married to her and what else gonna happen ? he brought her to his land or country , lol not just one year ! she asked to divorce him and she found new BF or new supporter.. what you think then ? I saw alot of this kind of thai pros. as they said , u cant take a girl out of a bar but you cant take a bar out of a girl. good luck to everyone.

By: MEGALITHIC

MEGALITHIC — Sun, 31 Oct 2010 15:50:41 +0000

When you live here everything changes. You’re surrounded by it 24/7 so it so the equation changes. The red light areas are a limited little world with limited possibiliities. The bottom line becomes glaringly obvious and the illusion of what was once hot eventually turns into a sobering reality slap of not. The good girls offer more and, even though what they want isn’t any different, they’re hotter, smarter and far more interesting. Walking around a place like the Paragon it stands out even more. Bargirls aren’t difficult to spot and the forced little routines they go through with their walking ATM’s only have me thinking one thing; I know your game, it’s all about the money. I stopped going to the bar areas some time ago after I moved into an upmarket area of Bangkok. I went to a restaurant/bar one night, just down the road from my condo, and ran into something that stopped me in my tracks; educated, attractive Thai women running their own successful business that didn’t mind engaging me in decent conversation. It made me realise that, with a bit of effort, getting to the next level wouldn’t be all that difficult. Yes, it maybe that they’ve still got one eye on the money and you’d be less than cynical if you didn’t ask yourself why any hot yong Thai lady would be wanting to interact with a farang when she could, so easily, get it it on with a handsome Thai dude her own age, who knows? Maybe you’ll meet one that’s got a Mars in Aries and a Venus in Cancer and just wants to get it on for the sake of getting it on. But, yes, it is understandable that men (who are on vacation) fly half way around the world to have sex with Thai prostitutes; it’s simply a matter of time and money.

By: ruelas mcnulty-frobisher

ruelas mcnulty-frobisher — Sun, 31 Oct 2010 01:05:33 +0000

Anna and sarah you sound like the kind of bitter frigid worthless bingo winged fat supermarket trolley pushing four eyed unhygienic 40 something child support agency sponging single mother harridans who push western men into the pussies of 19 year old lithe beautiful thai girls.

Ever stopped to think instead of being so ignorant and judgemental “girls”?

By: Paul

Paul — Mon, 06 Sep 2010 14:16:04 +0000

My spin on it all having been to Thailand three times now.
ok my first time i was not overly impressed.The last two times i enjoyed big time.This was a few years ago now but
I for one will be going there early next year to stay as long as possible being fairly financially secure

This was a number of years ago now as i had met a beautiful chinese lady in Australia who was also sucessful.However & it is not the first Australian gf i had that expected this.
She moved into my place & rented out her place where i had no problem paying the bills but then she start to ask for money to give her every week even i payed when we went out.
She moved out after six months where it cost her a lot more even we saw each other for another three years.She told me all the crap like she wants to die before me & she cant live without my big dick.I cant go into it all for it was four years in total but recently she went to china & asked me to mind her dog.Message from china she misses me but stopped for 1 minute to pick up her dog.Thought this is strange only to find out she had a new boyfriend for 2 months.Total user it turns out.I helped her so much which is another story i wont get into.Lets just say she ripped my heart out.

Im sure i will get repercussions for saying this but from my experience with girlfriends out of 8 in my life i would say 6 of them you would class as a whore anyway expecting you to fork out for everything & no i am not an ugly fat bastard not to say i am Brad Pitt either.
Men go to thailand for many reasons.Of course the mostly friendly female company but i mean some go to party & drink & root everything that moves whilst others go for the gf experience where they may spend 2 weeks with a women if she is good & go to dinner & movies etc.me myself i am more on that side of things but over there i would not hesitate to drop one & find another if she started getting an attitude.

I think a lot of men do go there because they couldnt get a petite little lady back home & i dont see anything wrong with that.Beats the heck out of some fat nagging women back in the home country plus you dont have to get your heart ripped out for you just get another one as women in my country do whenever they are unhappy with the relationship they have.

As for prostitutes in Aus they run at about 85 per half or 150 an hour on the cheaper side of things.Generally the asian ones some quite young & beautiful.Cant say i have experienced the pushed out the door experience too ften here as the first guy mention in Ampsterdam.You have your time Allocated & that is what they give you but it certainly does not come close to Thailand.Pity you std’s especially aids to concern so even some women in thailand dont care either way it is best to be safe.
Anyway i have rambled on enough so that is my point of view

By: someone2love

someone2love — Mon, 06 Sep 2010 04:53:19 +0000

@ Mort I think you’re confused about the feminist point of view on prostitution. A LOT of feminists want to legalize prostitution. In the United States it’s just the huge population of Bible thumpers that won’t allow legalized prostitution. Feminists Do Not want to drive the sex trade underground. Feminists like myself would love to see legalized prostitution in the United States where the sex industry is government-regulated. All sex workers should be documented and assessed that they are 18 years old or older. They should receive government benefits like any other self-employed individual. At the very least the trafficking of children will cease and fewer children will be smuggled into this country for sex.

Overall, I think you have some subconscious animosity towards women and I think it will certainly impact your ability to have a loving and fulfilling relationship with a woman. But this is true for most men that frequent sex workers. From what I can see respect for women isn’t high on the list of priorities for most men here.