Comments on: Hot or Not? What Thai Girls Look for in a Foreign Guy

By: yathish

yathish — Sun, 22 Jan 2012 23:35:18 +0000

Hi Danny,

thanks for the suggestion, i learnt a lot and guess i can atleast start prepairing now before i actually go there, but do you recomend if i can get married over there and get her to live with me in india?

By: Ahoms

Ahoms — Thu, 19 Jan 2012 11:47:25 +0000

I m a manipuri boy frm India, I want to mention tat there is also a group of thai people knwn as AHOMS who live in Assam and they do no look like chinese and they even have very less mongoloid feautres than the other indian mongoloids also, I don’t say tat they totally don’t have but they have only slight mongoloid features and as per as I know they don’t have cross-breeding also except the in the main town Guwahati. They are very tall and they have fair skin also but much darker than other mongoloids. Because of their structure they look very beautiful also because they don’t look like indians as well as they don’t look like chinese as for that it seems they are of very different race and I want to mention that Bishnupriya manipuri have same look like them. It seems both are of the same race. But the curious fact is that Bishnupriyas manipuries are aryans where as ahoms are actually mongoloids

By: james

james — Sun, 01 Jan 2012 13:51:04 +0000

I never leaves replys to articles but I agree with every single point made in this artice…..every point made is spot on. nice to see someone take the time to write a genuinely useful read…

By: Robert

Robert — Wed, 21 Dec 2011 05:30:11 +0000

I enjoyed the original article and think there is a lot of truth to it. Once again, it’s also nice not to read the same old cynicism over and over. Yes, money is an attraction to Thai women, but the ones at home are no different, and even a relationship that starts off as being more employment than love can generate sincere feelings of love and attachment once the girl comes to know the man, like and genuinely respect him. That is if the man has any qualities worth liking or respecting.

By: Blaise

Blaise — Mon, 05 Dec 2011 09:47:10 +0000

interesting topic, but i cant say i have seen the same things as discussed, i travel to thai for 3 months each year with friends and like most falangs dont worry with western women, but i really dont see the whole “wanting long term commitment” thing, and no i dont pay for women because i dont have to, not saying im brad pitt but just because i know how to talk to girls in general, but the odd thing is that all they are after is a fling, i never get any that are wanting anything more than when i leave, and no i dont spoil them, i hardly pay for anything, this one girl from isaan stayed with me for two weeks before i left and she actually paid for me more than i did for her, and we just agreed to be friends when i left, i still am friends with her and i know what your thinking “oh this young guy got done by some hot looking bar/freelance girl” no that is not the case, im not stupid and know how things are.
maybe its just the types i come across and i dont just hang in the typical sex districts either (tend to stay away mostly because of the thai girl that the area’s attract)

By: Frederick

Frederick — Sun, 04 Dec 2011 18:01:02 +0000

MONEY WILL BUY ALMOST ANYTHING IN THAILAND. IN FACT SO MUCH SO THAT MANY DUMB UNFORTUNATE FARANG MEN THINK THEY CAN BUY LOVE.
The stuff earlier about looking good and shaping up matters zilch, you have the wallet in the pocket well then you are theee man regardless of how you look.
BASICALLY, A FARANG is an ATM machine. For a little Thai Floosie it matters shit how big his belley is.

By: mando6971

mando6971 — Thu, 13 Oct 2011 09:15:28 +0000

I feel the same way. I’d rather have many beautiful Thai ladies and pay for it directly than have to put up with the emotional ups and downs of a relationship (being there, done that..and it costs money too!)… Plus, in Thailand, there is an endless supply of beauties…why the fuck should I be stuck with one girlfriend?
No, I am never lonely, I have my guy friends to have a great time with when my ladies have gone to sleep…

By: MEGALITHIC

MEGALITHIC — Fri, 07 Oct 2011 18:52:07 +0000

Monterosa: quite a few good observations there particularly the comment about being a Louis Vuiton bag with a cock and balls. Perhaps this highlights the superficiality of it all and how image conscious Thai ladies tend to be. A guy could be the worlds greatest asshole but if he’s dressed looking as though he’s rolling in cash the gold diggers will be sniffing around big time. Hardly surprising though as most women are programmed to find the best male provider they can sink their claws into lol. We are programmed to procreate (ejaculate) they are programmed to find food, clothing and shelter (money). The better looking (more attractive) ladies tend to have higher expectations in terms of what they can be provided with.

This is why I agree with the theory that the lady you end up in a relationship with is actually the one that chooses you and not, as most guys mistakenly think, the one you choose. We end up being able to have our way with them because they make a conscious decision to allow us to. The trade off, of course, is that they are expecting something in return for allowing us access to their property (body). With bar girls (hookers) it is obviously cash but with a good girl the trade off is commitment to a long term provision of food, clothing and shelter. Regardless of their background, be they good girl or bar girl, all of them are looking to improve their lot in this world. That’s why things almost always get messy when a relationship finishes; both sides are losing something. Even more so for a Thai lady (or any woman for that matter) as they’re seeing their potential future being torn away from them.

I’ve always maintained that, for a farang living in Thailand, unless you’re planning on having kids there’s no point getting into a relationship here, particularly with a lady from a good background, because their expectations are always long term and, more often than not, about marriage. Increasingly I’ve found that I’m quite happy being alone and taking advantage of the pay for pleasure offerings that are available in this fair land. I still get what I need but with out the commitment or emotional ups and downs of being in a relationship.

By: Monterosa

Monterosa — Fri, 07 Oct 2011 06:25:20 +0000

Not only is it in your rights to say that. Its your duty.

What I was trying to say is: women generally love your status. If you have all the possibilities like money and good looks, it may be an advantage for your sex live. But if you really face the situation, you are just a damn louis vuitton bag with a cock and balls.

A lot of people say dont search for the right one, you’ll just be disappointed because of your high expectations. That is pathetic and some kind of dull dalai lama mantra. I think finding the right one is in fact looking out over and over again, making the right compromises and adjustments. And if you break off with your girl , it is still a win situation: you took the risk, had a good or least intense time and grow as a person. You can learn from every women, even from the most blackhearted whore.

If I am old one day and didnt find the right one I look into the mirror and say: Well, I fought hard but fair. I tried. I could not do more.

As for Bangkok, I find it more difficult to meet other fellas for partying together than meeting women. Just don’t like the average sex tourists here – or expats who still act like that. You can have talks in this blog you never have when going out in bkk. So if anyone is out for a beer or two tonite, send me pm.

By: MEGALITHIC

MEGALITHIC — Wed, 05 Oct 2011 20:44:59 +0000

@monterosa: I’m not a hiso, wealthy or young so my options are far more limited than yours. The good girls that I’ve meet were the normal Thai, office worker types whose salaries are fairly small. I had a couple of them mention their money problems to me and that’s when I said that I don’t pay a monthly stipend. I think I was quite within my rights to say so but I can also understand the reasons for them trying it on. If one is poor in Thailand then life is a struggle.

Do we ever really find the right one or is it just a matter of making compromises and adjustments to our lives to include someone else?