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	<title>Comments on: Good Thai Girls and Bad Thai Girls &#8211; Is There More to the Story?</title>
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		<title>By: CC</title>
		<link>http://www.bangkokdiaries.com/2009/09/29/good-thai-girls-bad-thai-girls-story/comment-page-2/#comment-8622</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 May 2011 08:41:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sometimes it is very hard to distinguish between the love and the money. From the beginning all may seems like fire works and honey moon, they will stay with you despite you are not beside them as you may need to travel in and out of the country, as long as you send them pocket money, bought a house and a nice car for them to drive and eventually &quot;show off&quot;. When the day came when it&#039;s time to move on separately, the true colours come out, they will ask for compensation or otherwise &quot;break up money&quot; for the time lost and love given and others what so ever they have contributed in the relationship! 

This really makes one wonder, is this a business deal? Real love huh?!

This not only happens to farang men but their own local unfortunate soft ears men which seems so easily to be manipulate sometime ...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sometimes it is very hard to distinguish between the love and the money. From the beginning all may seems like fire works and honey moon, they will stay with you despite you are not beside them as you may need to travel in and out of the country, as long as you send them pocket money, bought a house and a nice car for them to drive and eventually &#8220;show off&#8221;. When the day came when it&#8217;s time to move on separately, the true colours come out, they will ask for compensation or otherwise &#8220;break up money&#8221; for the time lost and love given and others what so ever they have contributed in the relationship! </p>
<p>This really makes one wonder, is this a business deal? Real love huh?!</p>
<p>This not only happens to farang men but their own local unfortunate soft ears men which seems so easily to be manipulate sometime &#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Jake Danger</title>
		<link>http://www.bangkokdiaries.com/2009/09/29/good-thai-girls-bad-thai-girls-story/comment-page-2/#comment-8529</link>
		<dc:creator>Jake Danger</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Feb 2011 06:18:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>One more thing...I have found that anywhere in the world you go, including Thailand, if you give the woman respect and affection, and try to make her happy in bed too, you don&#039;t have to pay for it, with money or with commitment. Hardened prostitutes may not respond to that approach, but lots of other girls will. I&#039;m middle-aged and poor, not all that handsome, and I never have any problem. But if we treat them like walking poon-tang, we can&#039;t exactly complain if they respond by treating us like walking ATMs.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One more thing&#8230;I have found that anywhere in the world you go, including Thailand, if you give the woman respect and affection, and try to make her happy in bed too, you don&#8217;t have to pay for it, with money or with commitment. Hardened prostitutes may not respond to that approach, but lots of other girls will. I&#8217;m middle-aged and poor, not all that handsome, and I never have any problem. But if we treat them like walking poon-tang, we can&#8217;t exactly complain if they respond by treating us like walking ATMs.</p>
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		<title>By: Jake Danger</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jake Danger</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Feb 2011 06:13:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My above comment was addressed to &quot;Guest Reader&quot;&#039;s comments, not to the comment of &quot;Megalithic&quot;.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My above comment was addressed to &#8220;Guest Reader&#8221;&#8216;s comments, not to the comment of &#8220;Megalithic&#8221;.</p>
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		<title>By: Jake Danger</title>
		<link>http://www.bangkokdiaries.com/2009/09/29/good-thai-girls-bad-thai-girls-story/comment-page-2/#comment-8527</link>
		<dc:creator>Jake Danger</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Feb 2011 06:08:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am a Christian, and to the above commentator I can only say, hate is NOT a Christian value. You sound more like Al-Qaeda than Christian.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am a Christian, and to the above commentator I can only say, hate is NOT a Christian value. You sound more like Al-Qaeda than Christian.</p>
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		<title>By: MEGALITHIC</title>
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		<dc:creator>MEGALITHIC</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Oct 2010 06:30:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>But, in the end, it becomes a head f_ck doesn&#039;t it. Lies, deception and mind games. Some guys can live with it but I couldn&#039;t. I was in a Pua Noi situation and sometimes I&#039;d be lying in bed with her while she was telling the sugar daddy, over the phone, that she loved him. The thing is that, in that situation, one becomes a tacit accomplice to deceit. And, no doubt, the karma of that is the head f_ck that comes from all the mind games. One day I just said I&#039;d had enough and left. Incorrect (negative) actions always lead to incorrect (negative) consequences. Some guys just can&#039;t get beyond that thing that hangs between their legs and they&#039;ll go along with any shitty situation to satisfy that. At the end of the day though, as Knitpa said so astutely, we&#039;ve got no one to blame except ourselves for choosing to be a victim. They (the girls) are just taking advantage of the situation that&#039;s put in front of them, you can&#039;t blame them. The reason why so many farang opt for bad girls is that they&#039;re scared of the type of commitment that would come from hooking up with a good girl. Bad girls aren&#039;t really bad, they&#039;re just ruthless mercenaries and, if you&#039;re going to play the game with them, then you&#039;ve got to be their mirror image. See it for what it&#039;s about; money. Use and lose.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>But, in the end, it becomes a head f_ck doesn&#8217;t it. Lies, deception and mind games. Some guys can live with it but I couldn&#8217;t. I was in a Pua Noi situation and sometimes I&#8217;d be lying in bed with her while she was telling the sugar daddy, over the phone, that she loved him. The thing is that, in that situation, one becomes a tacit accomplice to deceit. And, no doubt, the karma of that is the head f_ck that comes from all the mind games. One day I just said I&#8217;d had enough and left. Incorrect (negative) actions always lead to incorrect (negative) consequences. Some guys just can&#8217;t get beyond that thing that hangs between their legs and they&#8217;ll go along with any shitty situation to satisfy that. At the end of the day though, as Knitpa said so astutely, we&#8217;ve got no one to blame except ourselves for choosing to be a victim. They (the girls) are just taking advantage of the situation that&#8217;s put in front of them, you can&#8217;t blame them. The reason why so many farang opt for bad girls is that they&#8217;re scared of the type of commitment that would come from hooking up with a good girl. Bad girls aren&#8217;t really bad, they&#8217;re just ruthless mercenaries and, if you&#8217;re going to play the game with them, then you&#8217;ve got to be their mirror image. See it for what it&#8217;s about; money. Use and lose.</p>
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		<title>By: buzz</title>
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		<dc:creator>buzz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Oct 2010 00:06:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>pretty much assume that they are bad news and doing horrible things . 
just dont get to attached .  you can assume they ar e going to lie and such . like if they say that they were never a hooker they probably were .
if they say they are it has only been for a month . but really a year .
if they dont lie about that it will be that the kid at her home is her sisters kid, but not true . 
i mean its just one thing or another it seems.
but when you are dealing with someone that desperate you have to look at them differently .
you have to keep your guard up. you have to wear a condom even if you married forever . 
i would not risk it . i dont even get in a body of water with one .
who knows the kinds gonnorhea fluids being secreted in the water . 
i mean common sense .
like dont feel bad if you happen to be bad one night and give a lovely lady a good old fashioned team ramrod.
because you can be sure when you leave she  is up to no good.
they have a minor wife thingy over there too so just be like yea thats my other one and its cool 
if they give you a hard time just be like whatever .
if they are over here what are they going to do ???
pick up . bust out the plane ticket that cost 2 k . 
then tell there family that she is not going to get more money and her mom will dope the shit out of her .    she would do anything to get out of there. 
and if she is bad enough you just use it as leverage once in a while .
like just be like well if you dont want to stay here just go and do whatever 
like they would go .
but it goes both ways 
so pretty much if its done right its a fancy mutual understanding that you guys can bone other people as long as you sleep in your wifes  bed at night .
accept the fact that you will never get a true anwser or the real reason for anything but 
as long as you have cooperation and something lovely to look at then i guess everyones happy. with variety being the spicy of life its not bad when you can slide it in some beautiful women then cruise home and not really worry to much about it .
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>pretty much assume that they are bad news and doing horrible things .<br />
just dont get to attached .  you can assume they ar e going to lie and such . like if they say that they were never a hooker they probably were .<br />
if they say they are it has only been for a month . but really a year .<br />
if they dont lie about that it will be that the kid at her home is her sisters kid, but not true .<br />
i mean its just one thing or another it seems.<br />
but when you are dealing with someone that desperate you have to look at them differently .<br />
you have to keep your guard up. you have to wear a condom even if you married forever .<br />
i would not risk it . i dont even get in a body of water with one .<br />
who knows the kinds gonnorhea fluids being secreted in the water .<br />
i mean common sense .<br />
like dont feel bad if you happen to be bad one night and give a lovely lady a good old fashioned team ramrod.<br />
because you can be sure when you leave she  is up to no good.<br />
they have a minor wife thingy over there too so just be like yea thats my other one and its cool<br />
if they give you a hard time just be like whatever .<br />
if they are over here what are they going to do ???<br />
pick up . bust out the plane ticket that cost 2 k .<br />
then tell there family that she is not going to get more money and her mom will dope the shit out of her .    she would do anything to get out of there.<br />
and if she is bad enough you just use it as leverage once in a while .<br />
like just be like well if you dont want to stay here just go and do whatever<br />
like they would go .<br />
but it goes both ways<br />
so pretty much if its done right its a fancy mutual understanding that you guys can bone other people as long as you sleep in your wifes  bed at night .<br />
accept the fact that you will never get a true anwser or the real reason for anything but<br />
as long as you have cooperation and something lovely to look at then i guess everyones happy. with variety being the spicy of life its not bad when you can slide it in some beautiful women then cruise home and not really worry to much about it .<br />
word</p>
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		<title>By: Jennifer</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jennifer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Oct 2010 08:37:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This article is amusing. I am a Western female currently living in Thailand. I have only one very good Thai female friend, and she floats between a Modern Girl and a Party Girl...but then again, so do I. We speak a lot about relationships and compare marriage to Thai men with marriage to Western men. She&#039;s told me some pretty crazy stories about women she knows that have taken advantage of their expat husbands. I’ve also met my share of down and out men and women who were taken for everything they had by their Thai spouses. It is important that foreigners are familiar with marriage law in Thailand before they marry. While I know many expats happily married in Thailand, all foreigners should take precautions when considering this option. They should know what to expect as far as marriage laws concerning divorce procedures, property rights, and prenuptial agreements. Foreign spouses should also take time to get to know their Thai wives or husbands and try to determine if they will be expected to assume financial responsibility for their partners’ entire families once married. While some marriages can be blissful, others might be financially overwhelming, stressful, or even tragic. It is up to both partners to do their homework before getting married.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This article is amusing. I am a Western female currently living in Thailand. I have only one very good Thai female friend, and she floats between a Modern Girl and a Party Girl&#8230;but then again, so do I. We speak a lot about relationships and compare marriage to Thai men with marriage to Western men. She&#8217;s told me some pretty crazy stories about women she knows that have taken advantage of their expat husbands. I’ve also met my share of down and out men and women who were taken for everything they had by their Thai spouses. It is important that foreigners are familiar with marriage law in Thailand before they marry. While I know many expats happily married in Thailand, all foreigners should take precautions when considering this option. They should know what to expect as far as marriage laws concerning divorce procedures, property rights, and prenuptial agreements. Foreign spouses should also take time to get to know their Thai wives or husbands and try to determine if they will be expected to assume financial responsibility for their partners’ entire families once married. While some marriages can be blissful, others might be financially overwhelming, stressful, or even tragic. It is up to both partners to do their homework before getting married.</p>
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		<title>By: katechon</title>
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		<dc:creator>katechon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 30 May 2010 14:36:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;All tourist that go to Thailand to buy sex should be shot dead before departure home. &quot;

Wacko?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;All tourist that go to Thailand to buy sex should be shot dead before departure home. &#8221;</p>
<p>Wacko?</p>
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		<title>By: Mega</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mega</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 30 May 2010 03:47:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>To the above poster who calls himself &#039;Guest Reader&#039; 

There&#039;s a spot for you down at Soi 4 outside the Nana Entertainment Plaza with the other raving christian loonies that try telling us that sex is bad for us and we should repent for our sins. I&#039;ve tried telling a few of those idiots that they would be better off taking their message of salvation to the factory, on the outskirts of Bangkok, that produces land mines but they&#039;re just not interested. Far easier to attack a soft target like sex tourists, that are really doing nobody any harm, than front up to an armaments factory that are probably responsible for thousands of deaths worldwide.  Other things for you to consider:

George Bush was a good old christian boy was he not?

Try reading the God Delusion, it might expand your narrow minded view of the world.

Most christian values are based on older folk religions that were once called paganism and also originating from Egypt. Are you aware that the word that all christians say at the end of one their prayers is actually egyptian in origin? That&#039;s right. Amen is a derivative of Amen Ra and is really a closing statement loosely translated as &#039;and so it shall be&#039;

As I&#039;ve said to many christians before, the idea that a man was born of a virgin, walked on water and rose from the dead is a complete insult to my intelligence in this modern age. Sorry old sport but you really need to get a grip on reality.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To the above poster who calls himself &#8216;Guest Reader&#8217; </p>
<p>There&#8217;s a spot for you down at Soi 4 outside the Nana Entertainment Plaza with the other raving christian loonies that try telling us that sex is bad for us and we should repent for our sins. I&#8217;ve tried telling a few of those idiots that they would be better off taking their message of salvation to the factory, on the outskirts of Bangkok, that produces land mines but they&#8217;re just not interested. Far easier to attack a soft target like sex tourists, that are really doing nobody any harm, than front up to an armaments factory that are probably responsible for thousands of deaths worldwide.  Other things for you to consider:</p>
<p>George Bush was a good old christian boy was he not?</p>
<p>Try reading the God Delusion, it might expand your narrow minded view of the world.</p>
<p>Most christian values are based on older folk religions that were once called paganism and also originating from Egypt. Are you aware that the word that all christians say at the end of one their prayers is actually egyptian in origin? That&#8217;s right. Amen is a derivative of Amen Ra and is really a closing statement loosely translated as &#8216;and so it shall be&#8217;</p>
<p>As I&#8217;ve said to many christians before, the idea that a man was born of a virgin, walked on water and rose from the dead is a complete insult to my intelligence in this modern age. Sorry old sport but you really need to get a grip on reality.</p>
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		<title>By: Guest reader</title>
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		<dc:creator>Guest reader</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 May 2010 20:41:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I read the article in the hopes of learning more about Thai women. But I am sorry I don&#039;t feel more enlightened. I feel this article is a bad one. I am sure that some of it is true, but one simply can not label people. Everyone is different, every relationship is different in some ways.

This article is nothing more then an article saying that we westerners are so much better and morally superior then most Thai women. This article is at most 2-dimensional. Thai people are poor and they must do what they can to survive, stop judging them and stop going to Thailand if you don&#039;t like there surviver games. Stop buying sex from them and treat them with the respect they diverse. If you want to meet a good Thai women you will find one. If you go to bars even in the western world you will meet disgusting women. Even women in the western world who use INTERNET to date are disgusting and most of the are sexual predators looking for as many quick relationships. I could write an article about sick and disgusting white women in the western world. Wait, I could write several books packed with anecdotes about how sick and disturb the average white women is. 

Stop going to Thailand to pay for sex you are bringing shame to white men all over the world. ALL white men should be thankful towards the Thai women who marry them. Stop dealing with Thai women prostitutes or Thai women who only want white mens money. Stop degrading yourself and other Thai women by going there to buy sex. 

Why would any sane person write an article about different prostitutes, bar girls and gold diggers? Have you lost you mind somewhere between earth and heaven?

All tourist that go to Thailand to buy sex should be shot dead before departure home. You show disgrace to the rest of us who live in the western world who have fought in generations to create a better world. You should behave like Christians and not like Godless infidels. The western world must leave the principals of freedom, because they only bring insanity in the heads of millions of westerners. All westerner must return to their Christian fate or you must DIE! The modern principals are worth nothing, they only create sick and disturb people like the author who writes about prostitutes in Thailand.

The author shows evidence of the insanity that the modern society brings out of people in the western world. You must turn back to Christianity or die! 

Stop going to Thailand to buy sex you sick modern fucks!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I read the article in the hopes of learning more about Thai women. But I am sorry I don&#8217;t feel more enlightened. I feel this article is a bad one. I am sure that some of it is true, but one simply can not label people. Everyone is different, every relationship is different in some ways.</p>
<p>This article is nothing more then an article saying that we westerners are so much better and morally superior then most Thai women. This article is at most 2-dimensional. Thai people are poor and they must do what they can to survive, stop judging them and stop going to Thailand if you don&#8217;t like there surviver games. Stop buying sex from them and treat them with the respect they diverse. If you want to meet a good Thai women you will find one. If you go to bars even in the western world you will meet disgusting women. Even women in the western world who use INTERNET to date are disgusting and most of the are sexual predators looking for as many quick relationships. I could write an article about sick and disgusting white women in the western world. Wait, I could write several books packed with anecdotes about how sick and disturb the average white women is. </p>
<p>Stop going to Thailand to pay for sex you are bringing shame to white men all over the world. ALL white men should be thankful towards the Thai women who marry them. Stop dealing with Thai women prostitutes or Thai women who only want white mens money. Stop degrading yourself and other Thai women by going there to buy sex. </p>
<p>Why would any sane person write an article about different prostitutes, bar girls and gold diggers? Have you lost you mind somewhere between earth and heaven?</p>
<p>All tourist that go to Thailand to buy sex should be shot dead before departure home. You show disgrace to the rest of us who live in the western world who have fought in generations to create a better world. You should behave like Christians and not like Godless infidels. The western world must leave the principals of freedom, because they only bring insanity in the heads of millions of westerners. All westerner must return to their Christian fate or you must DIE! The modern principals are worth nothing, they only create sick and disturb people like the author who writes about prostitutes in Thailand.</p>
<p>The author shows evidence of the insanity that the modern society brings out of people in the western world. You must turn back to Christianity or die! </p>
<p>Stop going to Thailand to buy sex you sick modern fucks!</p>
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