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		<title>By: WITCH-B</title>
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		<dc:creator>WITCH-B</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Dec 2010 18:54:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>MY DOG IS MORE LOYAL AND LOVES ME MORE THAN ANY THAI WHORE CAN EVER.

FIND A SPORT ANY ACTIVITY AND GIVE UP BAD SEX AND SHITY RELATIONS WITH  ATTUDITAL THAI WHORES NOW.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>MY DOG IS MORE LOYAL AND LOVES ME MORE THAN ANY THAI WHORE CAN EVER.</p>
<p>FIND A SPORT ANY ACTIVITY AND GIVE UP BAD SEX AND SHITY RELATIONS WITH  ATTUDITAL THAI WHORES NOW.</p>
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		<title>By: Inspector Cowboy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Inspector Cowboy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Oct 2010 06:44:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>From a very early age women are aware of the power their sexuality has over men. This realisation grows as they age and the ability to manipulate improves to varying degrees over time. We are all aware of the, &quot;if you mow the lawn then ...... &quot; line and this becomes more subtle over time. 

I just cannot see the point in wining, dining, taxiing, courting, listening to, spending money on, hoping to lay some farang woman and spending a fortune in the process. We both know that sex is the bottom line so why the games? 

I can lay inifinitely more beautiful women by going to Thailand and paying for it than I could ever hope to do in Farangland where I would spend an absolute fortune in the process of dating some girl with an attitude.

Thai women are more fun, more attractive, better in bed and better people than any farang woman I&#039;ve ever come across.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>From a very early age women are aware of the power their sexuality has over men. This realisation grows as they age and the ability to manipulate improves to varying degrees over time. We are all aware of the, &#8220;if you mow the lawn then &#8230;&#8230; &#8221; line and this becomes more subtle over time. </p>
<p>I just cannot see the point in wining, dining, taxiing, courting, listening to, spending money on, hoping to lay some farang woman and spending a fortune in the process. We both know that sex is the bottom line so why the games? </p>
<p>I can lay inifinitely more beautiful women by going to Thailand and paying for it than I could ever hope to do in Farangland where I would spend an absolute fortune in the process of dating some girl with an attitude.</p>
<p>Thai women are more fun, more attractive, better in bed and better people than any farang woman I&#8217;ve ever come across.</p>
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		<title>By: Knitpa</title>
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		<dc:creator>Knitpa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Oct 2010 22:42:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good pointed that  how foreigner should do as tourist that how this kind of woman do for the first place is to entertaining tourist so if you want to get in serious relationship  then you have to deal with the problem that they may have to start with ...good for you megalithic .. i knew you will be fine and know how to handle thai woman in many  way... good luck ;-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good pointed that  how foreigner should do as tourist that how this kind of woman do for the first place is to entertaining tourist so if you want to get in serious relationship  then you have to deal with the problem that they may have to start with &#8230;good for you megalithic .. i knew you will be fine and know how to handle thai woman in many  way&#8230; good luck <img src='http://www.bangkokdiaries.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: MEGALITHIC</title>
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		<dc:creator>MEGALITHIC</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Oct 2010 18:28:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes, fair enough point. Maybe it is a step to far in suggesting all women are whores but regarding the idea that what they want, is no different to what whores want, is spot on. 

I suppose I was alluding to what they&#039;ve got to offer in exchange for the money, or access to money, that a man might provide. And that at it&#039;s most basic, or primeval level, isn&#039;t any different. In a relationship the lines do get blurred a bit if you compare the black and white scenario of renting a lady for the night. Having dated a number of ladies, met over the internet dating sites, I would have to say that the experience, for the most part, is entirely underwhelming. Those purporting to be ladies of good standing, in a very short space of time, were dropping hints about gifts, money problems and wanting to go shopping. I even had one that helped herself to french champers at 1700 Baht a glass without batting an eyelid. Needless to say I, very quickly, blocked her phone numbers. 

I don&#039;t bother with those dating sites any more. If I need a bit of companionship for the night I just head out to one of the freelancer joints around town. At least it gives the semblance of picking up something attractive in a bar (even though the bottom line is still the bottom line). Anyway, once you&#039;ve lived here for a number of years the whole thing about interacting with Thai ladies becomes rather predictable and ho hum; very difficult for an older farang to hook up with a wealthy Thai lady and the ones we tend to meet are always looking for a financial leg up. Sorry, but that&#039;s the way it is. I&#039;ve got to the point where I just don&#039;t care anymore. I just do what I want to do and when I feel the the urge I just rent one for the night.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, fair enough point. Maybe it is a step to far in suggesting all women are whores but regarding the idea that what they want, is no different to what whores want, is spot on. </p>
<p>I suppose I was alluding to what they&#8217;ve got to offer in exchange for the money, or access to money, that a man might provide. And that at it&#8217;s most basic, or primeval level, isn&#8217;t any different. In a relationship the lines do get blurred a bit if you compare the black and white scenario of renting a lady for the night. Having dated a number of ladies, met over the internet dating sites, I would have to say that the experience, for the most part, is entirely underwhelming. Those purporting to be ladies of good standing, in a very short space of time, were dropping hints about gifts, money problems and wanting to go shopping. I even had one that helped herself to french champers at 1700 Baht a glass without batting an eyelid. Needless to say I, very quickly, blocked her phone numbers. </p>
<p>I don&#8217;t bother with those dating sites any more. If I need a bit of companionship for the night I just head out to one of the freelancer joints around town. At least it gives the semblance of picking up something attractive in a bar (even though the bottom line is still the bottom line). Anyway, once you&#8217;ve lived here for a number of years the whole thing about interacting with Thai ladies becomes rather predictable and ho hum; very difficult for an older farang to hook up with a wealthy Thai lady and the ones we tend to meet are always looking for a financial leg up. Sorry, but that&#8217;s the way it is. I&#8217;ve got to the point where I just don&#8217;t care anymore. I just do what I want to do and when I feel the the urge I just rent one for the night.</p>
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		<title>By: Inspector Cowboy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Inspector Cowboy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Oct 2010 06:58:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think it is a step too far to claim that &quot;all women are whores&quot; although it is fair to say &quot;all women want the same as whores&quot; and that is money or access to money. Money equals choice and comfort and this is what women crave. This has not changed since we were living in caves and will always be the case. The notion that women should also work for money is a concept that seems to be lost on many of them. With whores everybody knows where they stand and there are no grey areas. A man pays for sex, the whore provides it and then the man leaves. Everybody gains. In a marriage or romantic relationship the lines become blurred and one side always ends up losing out. 

Give me a whore any day or the week.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think it is a step too far to claim that &#8220;all women are whores&#8221; although it is fair to say &#8220;all women want the same as whores&#8221; and that is money or access to money. Money equals choice and comfort and this is what women crave. This has not changed since we were living in caves and will always be the case. The notion that women should also work for money is a concept that seems to be lost on many of them. With whores everybody knows where they stand and there are no grey areas. A man pays for sex, the whore provides it and then the man leaves. Everybody gains. In a marriage or romantic relationship the lines become blurred and one side always ends up losing out. </p>
<p>Give me a whore any day or the week.</p>
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		<title>By: Jack</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jack</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Aug 2010 19:07:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good writeup, I think I&#039;ve read something similar before.

Anyway, the whores with attitude thing is both good and bad. It&#039;s good for the punters because if Thai whores were not free to choose, then it would all be like going to a Ratchada soapy, and that&#039;s not what most guys want. No, they want the full act, a believable illusion. Also, I think the whores are actually doing guys a favor in making them clean up their clothes and behavior a bit. I am serious about that part!

It&#039;s bad, because it blurs the lines between fantasy and reality. If you spend a lot of time in Soi Cowboy then eventually you&#039;re perception of reality, of attraction, sex and, dare I say, love will get twisted. 

When I lived in Bangkok I used to see guys there with such trashy girlfriends, where you know if that guy had just taken the time to socialise a bit outside the bars, then he could most likely have found a much nicer girlfriend. 

I have often marvelled at the stupidity of this world. I&#039;ve been sitting in gogo&#039;s and being less than impressed with the girls working there and seeing how each girl who were decent looking would be in higher demand than a real 10 on the outside. It&#039;s stupid. It makes you stupid.

To get the hotter girls, the best action is generally just to wear nice clothes, but not too nice, you don&#039;t want to seem too successful. Go with some friends and have fun (or pretend). Splash some cash around and buy some drinks (tequilas are good for getting girls tipsy). Invite the girls out afterwards to some fancy hotelbar. Serve more tequilas until she starts grinding her crotch against you. 

At the end of the night, how much would you have spent? A lot I guess. Probably at least a monthly minimum wage. Is it worth it? In my opinon, no, it isn&#039;t. 

If I want to whore then I want it easy and fun. I&#039;d probably go to a Ratchada Soapy and get a really hot girl. Or I would ask for the newest and freshest girl in the club. Or go try to make a gig out of a member club girl. Pay her those 7000 baht a month for an apartment at the NASA complex and then shag her twice a week.

If I want to have meet girls and have fun, then it&#039;s ten times better to go to a club or bar, with friends or some girl I met during the day time or on the internet.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good writeup, I think I&#8217;ve read something similar before.</p>
<p>Anyway, the whores with attitude thing is both good and bad. It&#8217;s good for the punters because if Thai whores were not free to choose, then it would all be like going to a Ratchada soapy, and that&#8217;s not what most guys want. No, they want the full act, a believable illusion. Also, I think the whores are actually doing guys a favor in making them clean up their clothes and behavior a bit. I am serious about that part!</p>
<p>It&#8217;s bad, because it blurs the lines between fantasy and reality. If you spend a lot of time in Soi Cowboy then eventually you&#8217;re perception of reality, of attraction, sex and, dare I say, love will get twisted. </p>
<p>When I lived in Bangkok I used to see guys there with such trashy girlfriends, where you know if that guy had just taken the time to socialise a bit outside the bars, then he could most likely have found a much nicer girlfriend. </p>
<p>I have often marvelled at the stupidity of this world. I&#8217;ve been sitting in gogo&#8217;s and being less than impressed with the girls working there and seeing how each girl who were decent looking would be in higher demand than a real 10 on the outside. It&#8217;s stupid. It makes you stupid.</p>
<p>To get the hotter girls, the best action is generally just to wear nice clothes, but not too nice, you don&#8217;t want to seem too successful. Go with some friends and have fun (or pretend). Splash some cash around and buy some drinks (tequilas are good for getting girls tipsy). Invite the girls out afterwards to some fancy hotelbar. Serve more tequilas until she starts grinding her crotch against you. </p>
<p>At the end of the night, how much would you have spent? A lot I guess. Probably at least a monthly minimum wage. Is it worth it? In my opinon, no, it isn&#8217;t. </p>
<p>If I want to whore then I want it easy and fun. I&#8217;d probably go to a Ratchada Soapy and get a really hot girl. Or I would ask for the newest and freshest girl in the club. Or go try to make a gig out of a member club girl. Pay her those 7000 baht a month for an apartment at the NASA complex and then shag her twice a week.</p>
<p>If I want to have meet girls and have fun, then it&#8217;s ten times better to go to a club or bar, with friends or some girl I met during the day time or on the internet.<br />
<span class="cluv">Jack recently posted..<a class="975ad435e1 8089" rel="nofollow" href="http://onlinedatingthailand.com/bangkok-girls">Bangkok Girls</a></span></p>
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		<title>By: Fiedee</title>
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		<dc:creator>Fiedee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Jul 2010 23:09:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree with the respect for modest people. I don&#039;t care if they&#039;re rich or not. I blow them off like you do.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with the respect for modest people. I don&#8217;t care if they&#8217;re rich or not. I blow them off like you do.</p>
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		<title>By: Fiedee</title>
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		<dc:creator>Fiedee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Jul 2010 22:59:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I know a lot of rich people who are modest, lots of Asian people and lots of Thais.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I know a lot of rich people who are modest, lots of Asian people and lots of Thais.</p>
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		<title>By: mando6971</title>
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		<dc:creator>mando6971</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Jul 2010 18:43:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Daoism teaches modesty or humility. While I do not expect most people with status, money or power to be &quot;modest&quot;, I do respect people who are modest. I have met many many people who are arrogant and have attitudes because they are rich, pretty or powerful and it is easy to be an asshole like that. But I also have met very few people who are very rich, very powerful or have a high status but they behave in a very kind manner and they are modest,  and that is very difficult to be.  They have my full respect.

So I guess I will respect and look at a beautiful woman who is easy going and does not put her nose up in the air while I will blow off the most beautiful woman in the world who has an attitude. Especially in Thailand since the options are virtually limitless!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Daoism teaches modesty or humility. While I do not expect most people with status, money or power to be &#8220;modest&#8221;, I do respect people who are modest. I have met many many people who are arrogant and have attitudes because they are rich, pretty or powerful and it is easy to be an asshole like that. But I also have met very few people who are very rich, very powerful or have a high status but they behave in a very kind manner and they are modest,  and that is very difficult to be.  They have my full respect.</p>
<p>So I guess I will respect and look at a beautiful woman who is easy going and does not put her nose up in the air while I will blow off the most beautiful woman in the world who has an attitude. Especially in Thailand since the options are virtually limitless!</p>
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		<title>By: Kevin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kevin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Jul 2010 09:41:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nice piece of writing.
I can&#039;t blame a girl who has choices for choosing what and whom she wants. 

But I can blame someone for being downright rude. They deserve justice. And justice the Isan whore in Singapore received. You were painfully accurate.
Yet it is a shallow victory over the hopeless and helpless.

The whore with attitude is not completely at fault for her condition. They trade a lot for the  &quot;dignity&quot; of being a first-class whore.  She&#039;s a product of the profession, usually very young (compared to me anyway), ignorant, uneducated, desperately poor and put on a pedestal (even if there is a chrome pole in the middle of it) and being drooled on by the good the bad and the ugly. If I were one such girl I would enjoy my moment in the sun (read: dark), make all the money I could, suck up all the admiration...maybe even make the big score... but I wouldn&#039;t want to be reminded of what I really am (which they know full well)...the most pathetic disgraceful form of human life in her own culture, a pariah among her own people who can&#039;t even tell their parents what they really do. 
Being humiliated in front of her &quot;friends&quot; is about as bad as it gets. 
But they probably laughed out of shock that you made such a profound insult in their language awaaaay down in Singapore. After all they were basically the same as she and likely felt some connection with what you said.

Hopefully this girl, and/or her friends, learned from the experience. But I never had much luck teaching them anything.
And you can bet it was back to work the next day or whatever....hoping you didn&#039;t show up....and the incident was never mentioned again among them.

I&#039;ve  lived with a few go-go girls...one in particular for 4+ years. She definitely had &quot;attitude&quot; and could pick and choose....never went with fat guys, guys who chain-smoked, didn&#039;t shave or smelled bad....Indians, &quot;chocolate&quot; men and Thai men (I&#039;m pretty certain she was a 20%er) were also firmly on her shitlist.

But in the end; when we were at home, in her moments of emotional weakness or at end of some contention she would remark &quot;you know what I am&quot;.....her obvious shame and self-loathing always left me speechless. 
I never had to say..... she knew what she was.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nice piece of writing.<br />
I can&#8217;t blame a girl who has choices for choosing what and whom she wants. </p>
<p>But I can blame someone for being downright rude. They deserve justice. And justice the Isan whore in Singapore received. You were painfully accurate.<br />
Yet it is a shallow victory over the hopeless and helpless.</p>
<p>The whore with attitude is not completely at fault for her condition. They trade a lot for the  &#8220;dignity&#8221; of being a first-class whore.  She&#8217;s a product of the profession, usually very young (compared to me anyway), ignorant, uneducated, desperately poor and put on a pedestal (even if there is a chrome pole in the middle of it) and being drooled on by the good the bad and the ugly. If I were one such girl I would enjoy my moment in the sun (read: dark), make all the money I could, suck up all the admiration&#8230;maybe even make the big score&#8230; but I wouldn&#8217;t want to be reminded of what I really am (which they know full well)&#8230;the most pathetic disgraceful form of human life in her own culture, a pariah among her own people who can&#8217;t even tell their parents what they really do.<br />
Being humiliated in front of her &#8220;friends&#8221; is about as bad as it gets.<br />
But they probably laughed out of shock that you made such a profound insult in their language awaaaay down in Singapore. After all they were basically the same as she and likely felt some connection with what you said.</p>
<p>Hopefully this girl, and/or her friends, learned from the experience. But I never had much luck teaching them anything.<br />
And you can bet it was back to work the next day or whatever&#8230;.hoping you didn&#8217;t show up&#8230;.and the incident was never mentioned again among them.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve  lived with a few go-go girls&#8230;one in particular for 4+ years. She definitely had &#8220;attitude&#8221; and could pick and choose&#8230;.never went with fat guys, guys who chain-smoked, didn&#8217;t shave or smelled bad&#8230;.Indians, &#8220;chocolate&#8221; men and Thai men (I&#8217;m pretty certain she was a 20%er) were also firmly on her shitlist.</p>
<p>But in the end; when we were at home, in her moments of emotional weakness or at end of some contention she would remark &#8220;you know what I am&#8221;&#8230;..her obvious shame and self-loathing always left me speechless.<br />
I never had to say&#8230;.. she knew what she was.</p>
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